The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in BengalSivachandra Vasu
Religion
The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in Bengal
Sivachandra Vasu
Hindus; India -- Social life and customs; Women -- India
In this, as well as in some other eastern countries, polygamy has from
time out of mind been in existence. That it is subversive of moral order
and of conjugal felicity, is admitted by all who have paid the slightest
degree of attention to the very many evil consequences of this abnormal
institution. It is a violation of a just and divine law, opposed to the
nurture and education of children, and inconsistent with the due
equality of the sexes. In every country where this obnoxious practice
prevails, and is dignified with the hallowed name of a social and
religious ordinance, as is done in India, woman occupies a degraded
position, and society is rude and unexpansive in its character. The most
heinous crimes are committed without remorse, and conscience is seared,
as it were, with a red-hot iron. "Nature has designed woman to be the
equal of man as a moral and intellectual being; and confined to the
exercise of her own proper duties as a wife and mother, she is placed in
a favourable position as relates to her own happiness and the happiness
of her husband." Much of the civilization of Europe is due to the high
position of the fair sex in the social scale. Their education, their
capacity for rearing their children in orderly and virtuous habits,
their elevated conceptions of a Supreme Being, their social and domestic
manners, the purity of their lives, their natural tenderness and
affection, their freedom, and the moral influence of their actions on
society, give them a rank in no way inferior to that of the other sex.
But in this country, it is painful to realise that they are not only
denied the inestimable blessings of a good education but that their
first lawgiver has condemned them to a state of abject servitude.
"Women have no business" says Manu, "with the text of the Veda, this is
the law fully settled: having, therefore, no evidence of law, and no
knowledge of expiatory texts, sinful women must be as foul as falsehood
itself; and this is a fixed rule. Through their passion for men, their
mutable temper, their want of settled affection, and their perverse
nature, (let them be guarded in this world ever so well,) they soon
become alienated from their husbands." Manu allotted to such women "a
love of their bed, of their seat, and of ornament, impure appetites,
wrath, weak flexibility, desire of mischief and bad conduct. Day and
night must women be held by their protectors in a state of dependence."
Apart from their practically servile condition, the apparent complacence
with which polygamy is tolerated, and the facility with which a
plurality of wives can be obtained, are circumstances which poison the
perennial source of conjugal felicity, reduce them to a state of moral
and intellectual degradation, and sap the very foundation of virtue. "A
barren wife," says Manu, "may be superseded by another in the eighth
year; she whose children are all dead, in the tenth; she who brings
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