The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in BengalSivachandra Vasu
Religion
The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in Bengal
Sivachandra Vasu
Hindus; India -- Social life and customs; Women -- India
forth only daughters, in the eleventh year; she who speaks unkindly,
without delay." Bullal Sen, who, if I mistake not, had first established
the system of _Koolinism_ in Bengal, and prescribed certain rules in
favor of polygamy, was singularly deficient in foresight and wisdom when
he entirely overlooked the evil consequences inseparable from this
monstrous matrimonial arrangement, so pregnant with mischief in whatever
aspect we view it. Any artificial institution which is subversive of
divine law will, in the main, prove highly unfavourable to the best
interests of society. The marriage of a man with but one wife is an
arrangement which should never be departed from. To dispose of the
ministering angels of our existence, without the slightest regard to
their future happiness, and yoke them to an unprincipled libertine, or
a Koolin perhaps on the verge of his grave, is a system alike
destructive of all social, benevolent and humane feelings. A Koolin has
no regard, much less sympathy, for any one of his numerous wives, on the
contrary he looks to them for gain and other worldly advantages. It is a
notorious fact that Koolin wives after their marriage almost invariably
live with their parents, thus virtually closing all avenues to the
growth of affection between the husband and wife. The one is as
estranged from the other as if there had been no bond of union between
them. As the temptations to vicious indulgences are so very powerful and
numerous in this wicked world of ours, the unscrupulous Koolin females
of the sacerdotal class often sacrifice chastity at the altar of
sensuality. The perpetration of the most horrible crimes is the
necessary effect. The fault does not rest so much with the poor
unfortunate females as with the diabolical system which openly tolerates
and religiously upholds polygamy. That it is an unnatural state, even
the most thoughtless will readily admit. In every case it is the source
of perpetual disputes and misery. Domestic happiness can have no place
in a family in which more than one wife lives. I have known many a
person who under the impulse of passion had entered into this unnatural
state deplore it as the greatest of all domestic afflictions. Even
separate cook rooms, separate apartments, and separate _mehals_, and
dining and sleeping alternately with two wives with the greatest
punctuality, and giving the same set of ornaments to both, were not
enough to ensure harmony, peace and tranquillity. Indeed it has become a
proverb among the Hindoos, that "one wife would rather go with her
husband to the gloomy regions of _yama_ (Pluto) than see him sit with
the other." As has already been described, a tender girl of five years
of age is, as her _first_ instruction before emerging from her nursery,
initiated into the _Brata_ or religious vow of _Sayjooty_, the primary
object of which is the ruin and destruction of a _Sateen_ or rival wife.
The germs or jealousy against, and contempt for, a rival being thus sown
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