The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in BengalSivachandra Vasu
Religion
The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in Bengal
Sivachandra Vasu
Hindus; India -- Social life and customs; Women -- India
so early, they take deep root and expand in time so as to become
absolutely ineradicable.
When the presence of two wives in the same house is attended with so
much disquietude, the evil arising from the practices of professional
Koolins is much greater. They are married to a number of females whose
prospect of connubial bliss is as remote as the poles are asunder.
Instead of true love and genuine attachment, the legitimate conditions
of matrimony, the natural apathy of the husband is often requited by the
infidelity of his numerous wives; nor can it be otherwise, the visits of
the husband being, like those of a meteor, few and far between. Being
destitute of the finer susceptibilities of human nature, and looking
upon matrimony as a matter of traffic, he regards his wives as so many
automata whose happiness is not at all identified with his own.
Influenced by a sordid love of gain, bred and brought up in the lap of
ignorance and laziness, and pampered by effeminate habits, he leads a
profligate life typical of utter demoralisation. He cares as little for
the chastity of his wives as a child does for the nicety of his
playthings. By rank, profession and habit he is a debauchee. His sense
of female honor is totally blunted. The thought of nurturing and
educating his numerous children never enters into his mind. He knows not
how many sons and daughters he has, whether legitimate or illegitimate;
he is not capable of recognising them, simply because he has seldom or
never seen their faces. If he keep a register of the number of his
wives, he keeps no record of the number of his children. When he wants
money, he pounces on such a father-in-law as can satisfy him. If he keep
one wife at home, it is not from warmth of affection that he does so,
but merely for his own convenience and comfort; she is made to discharge
all the menial offices of a domestic maid-servant. Though never placed
in affluent circumstances, yet he is the lord of thirty, forty or fifty
women. It has been very aptly remarked by an eminent writer who had paid
much attention to the manners and customs of the Hindoos,--that "amongst
the Turks, seraglios are confined to men of wealth, but here, a Hindoo
Brahmin, possessing only a shred of cloth and a piece of thread,
(_poita_) keeps more than a hundred mistresses." Indeed such a system of
monstrous polygamy is without a parallel in the history of human
depravity. Prostitution, adultery, and the horrible crime of the
destruction of the foetus in the womb by means of deleterious drugs
administered by old women, are the inevitable consequences of this
unnatural state of things. It is an undeniable fact that the daughters
of Koolin Brahmins, abandoned by their unprincipled husbands, are often
led into the forbidden paths of life, partly through the impulse of
passion amidst the seductions of a wicked world, and partly through
their exceedingly miserable circumstances. The houses of ill fame in
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