The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in BengalSivachandra Vasu
Religion
The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in Bengal
Sivachandra Vasu
Hindus; India -- Social life and customs; Women -- India
From eight o'clock in the morning to 2 o'clock in the evening, the house
of a _Shrad_ is crammed to suffocation. A spacious awning covers the
open space of the court-yard, preventing the free access of air; carpets
and satterangees are spread on the ground for the _Kayastas_ and other
castes to sit on, while the Brahmins and Pundits by way of precedence
take their seats on the raised _Thacoordallan_, or place of worship. The
couch-cot with bedding, and the _dan_ consisting of silver and brass
utensils enumerated before, with a silver salver filled with Rupees, are
arranged in a straight line opposite the audience, leaving a little open
space for _kittanees_, or bands of songsters or songstresses and
musicians, which form the necessary accompaniment of a _Shrad_ for the
purpose of imparting solemnity to the scene. Three or four door-keepers
guard the entrance, so that no intruders may enter and create a
disturbance. The guests begin to come in at eight, and are courteously
asked to take their appropriate seats (Brahmins among Brahmins, and
Kayastas among Kayastas,) the servants in waiting serve them with
_hookah_ and tobacco,[122] those given to the Brahmins having a thread
or string fastened at the top for the sake of distinction. The Kayastas
and other guests are seen constantly going in and coming out, but the
generality of the Brahmins stick to their places until the funeral
ceremony is completed. The current topics of the day form the subject of
conversation while the _hookah_ goes round the assembly with great
precision and punctuality. The female relatives are brought in covered
_palkees_, as has been described before, by a separate entrance, shut
out from the gaze of the males. But as this is a mourning scene their
naturally convivial spirit gives way to condolence and sympathy.
Excessive grief does not allow the mother or the wife of the deceased to
take an active part in the melancholy proceedings of the day; they
generally stay aloof in a separate room, and are perhaps heard to mourn
or cry. The very sight of the mourning offerings, instead of affording
any consolation, almost involuntarily enkindles the flame of sorrow, and
produces a train of thoughts in keeping with the commemoration of the
sad event. Sisters of a congenial spirit try to soothe them by precepts
and examples, but their admonition and condolence prove in the main
unavailing. The appearance of a new face revives the sad emotions of the
heart. Nothing can dispel from the minds of a disconsolate mother or
wife the gloomy thoughts of her bereavement, and the still more gloomy
idea of a perpetual widowhood. The clang of _khole_ and _kharatal_
(musical instruments), which is fitted, as it were, from its very
dissonance, to drive away the ghost and kill the living, falls doubly
grating on her ears, while the fond endearments of _Jasoda_, the mother
of Krishna, rehearsed by the songsters in the outer court-yard, but
aggravate her grief the more.
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