The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in BengalSivachandra Vasu
Religion
The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in Bengal
Sivachandra Vasu
Hindus; India -- Social life and customs; Women -- India
The next day, a similar entertainment is given to the Kayastas and other
classes, which is accompanied by the same noise, confusion and tumult
that characterised the entertainment given on the previous day. The
sober and quiet enjoyments of life which have a tendency to enliven the
mind can seldom be expected in a Hindoo house of _Shrad_, where all is
_golemal_, confusion and disorder. When a dinner is announced, a regular
scramble takes place, the rude and the uninvited occupy the _first_
seats to the exclusion of the genteel and respectable, and when the
eatables are beginning to be served, the indecent cries of "bring
_loochee_, bring _kachoorie_, bring _tarkari_," and so on, are heard
every now and again, much to the disturbance of the polite and the
discreet.
The day following is called the _neeumbhanga_, or the day on which the
son is allowed to break the rules of mourning after one month. In the
morning the band of songsters previously retained come and treat the
family to songs of Krishna, taking care to select pieces which are most
pathetic and heart-rending, befitting the mournful occasion of a very
heavy domestic bereavement. The singing continues till twelve or one
o'clock, and some people seem to be so deeply affected that they
actually shed tears, and forget for a while their worldly cares and
anxieties. When the songs are finished, the son and his nearest
relatives, rubbing their bodies with oil and turmeric, remove the
_brisakat_ on their shoulders from the house to a place near it. A hole
is made, and the _brisakat_ (a painted log of wood about six feet high)
with an ox on the top, &c., is put into it; after this they all bathe
and return home. The songsters are dismissed with presents of money,
clothes and food.
The son then sits down to a dinner with his nearest blood relation, and
this is the _first_ day that he leaves his _habishee_ diet after a
month's mourning, and takes to the use of fish and other Hindoo dishes.
He is also allowed to change his mourning dress and put on shoes, after
having made a present of a pair to a Brahmin; he, moreover, sleeps with
his wife from this day as before, in fact he reverts to his former mode
of living in every respect.
As the entertainment this time consists of _vojan_, made up of rice and
curries, and not _jalpan_, made up of _loochees_ and sweetmeats,
comparatively a smaller number of guests assemble on the occasion[126]
and that of loafers and intruders exhibits a very diminished
proportion. Even on such occasions, one can always tell from a distance
that there is a feast at such a house from the noise it is invariably
attended with.
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