The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in BengalSivachandra Vasu
Religion
The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in Bengal
Sivachandra Vasu
Hindus; India -- Social life and customs; Women -- India
"I grant the boon," said Yama, "now that all your wishes have been
consummated, do not continue to follow me any longer. You are far away
from your father-in-law's cottage; return home at once."
Sabitri replied, "O virtuous king, we are apt to repose more confidence
in the righteous than in ourselves; their kindness amply requites our
love and regard." Yama said, "I am very much satisfied with your
edifying speech, and am disposed to grant you another boon." Sabitri
feeling grateful for the several boons granted unto her, presumed this
time to ask for the resurrection of her husband as well as for the birth
from them of a hundred powerful, wise and virtuous sons, to be the glory
of the country and the ornament of society.
"Be it so," said Yama cheerfully and disappeared.
It is obvious that the fertile imagination of the hereditary priests of
Hindoosthan, who, from their traditional mental abstraction, delighted
more in the concoction of legendary lore than of the solid, sober
realities of life, invented the above Brata or vow, mainly for the
consolation of ignorant females, to avert the hardships of widowhood,
than which a more unmitigated evil is not to be found in the domestic
economy of the Hindoos. The unhallowed institution of the immolation of
widows alive, was primarily traceable to the dread of this terrible
calamity, which preyed, as it were, on the vitals of humanity. Hence the
performance of this Brata is the culminating point of meritorious work
in popular estimation, promising to the performer the perpetual
enjoyment of connubial happiness, which is more valued by a Hindoo
female than all the riches of Golconda.
It is annually celebrated in the Bengalee month of Joysto both by widows
and by women whose husbands are alive, by the former, in the hope of
averting the evil in another life, by the latter, in the expectation of
continuing to enjoy conjugal bliss both in this world and the next.
On the celebration of this Brata on the fourteenth night of the decrease
of the moon, the husband, being dressed in clean new clothes, is made to
sit on a carpet, the wife, previously washing and drying his feet, puts
round his neck a garland of flowers and worships him with sandal and
flowers, wrestling hard in prayer for his prolonged life. This being
done, she provides for him a good dinner, consisting of different kinds
of fruits, sweetmeats, sweet and sour milk and ghee-fried _loochees_,
&c. It should be mentioned here that a widowed lady offers the same
homage to the god, Naraian, in the place of a husband.
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