The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in BengalSivachandra Vasu
Religion
The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in Bengal
Sivachandra Vasu
Hindus; India -- Social life and customs; Women -- India
On such occasions, females are allowed to have some amusement or
_tamasha_, according to their liking, (but of course not such as betrays
a vitiated taste, overstepping the bounds of decorum, which was the case
some years back). Dancing girls and _Panchalleys_ are entertained, who
contribute not a little to the amusement of the assembled guests.
Immured within the walls of a close zenana they are seldom suffered to
enjoy such unrestrained liberty. Otto of roses, rose water out of gold
or silver pots, nosegays, and _paun_ or betel are freely distributed
among them. They sit on benches or chairs, or squat down barefooted on
_forash bichana_ (a clean white sheet), and enjoy the _tamasha_ to their
hearts' content. These amusements continue till evening, entertaining
the guests with songs on gods and goddesses (Doorga, Krishna and his
mistress, Radha): those relating to Doorga have a reference to the ill
treatment she experienced at the hands of her parents, but those
pertaining to Krishna and Radha tell of his juvenile frolics with his
mother and the milk-maids, and amorous songs on disappointed love,
which, though they may appear harmless to their worshippers, have
nevertheless a partial tendency to debase the minds of females. By way
of encouragement, the singing and dancing girls receive, besides their
hire, presents of money, clothes and shawls, according to the
circumstances of the parties retaining them. To do our women justice,
however, it is pleasing to reflect that the progress of enlightenment
has of late years wrought a salutary change in their minds. Instead of
the former _Kabees_ (songs) which were shamefully characterised by the
worst species of obscenity and immorality, they have imbibed a taste for
more sober and refined entertainments. Moral and intellectual
improvement amongst perfectly secluded females is a sure harbinger of
national regeneration. The young and the sprightly, as is naturally to
be expected, enjoy these amusements most; but the more elderly and
thoughtful females make the best of the opportunity in conversation
about domestic affairs with those of their own age and kinship. They
have certainly no distaste for these frivolous entertainments, but the
thoughts and cares of home press more heavily on their minds. Age and
experience have taught them to regard the enjoyment of unalloyed
domestic felicity as the chief end of life. A good Hindoo housewife is a
model of moral excellence.
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