The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in BengalSivachandra Vasu
Religion
The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in Bengal
Sivachandra Vasu
Hindus; India -- Social life and customs; Women -- India
About four o'clock in the afternoon, when almost all the guests are
assembled together, long parallel rows of _pirays_, or wooden seats, the
one quite apart from the other--are arranged in straight lines in the
court-yard, in the midst of which is placed the seat of the pregnant
girl, which, by way of distinction, is painted white with rice paste
(_alpana_) with appropriate devices. Adorned with ornaments of
glittering gold, bedecked with precious stones, and dressed in an
embroidered Benares _Saree_, she walks gracefully towards her particular
seat, which is a signal for others (widows excepted) to follow; they all
squat down on the wooden seats, before which are placed small pieces of
green plantain leaves and a few little earthen plates and a cup, which
are intended to serve the purposes of plates and glasses. Before her
stands a light, a _conch_ is sounded, and a rupee with which her
forehead is touched is kept for the gods, for safe delivery. Fruits of
different kinds, about fifteen or sixteen sorts of sweetmeats,
_loochee_, _kachoory_, _papur_ (flour fried with ghee) in the shape of
_chappatees_, vegetable curries of several kinds, sweet and sour milk,
are provided for the guests, the female relatives of the girl serving as
stewards. No adult male member of the family is allowed to assist in the
feast, because Hindoo females blush to eat before men. Being most
pre-eminent in point of caste, Brahmin women are served _first_. Here
the rules of caste are strictly observed, and no departure therefrom is
tolerated. It is not uncommon that uninvited females, or more properly
speaking, intruders contrive by some means or other, to mix with the
company; but they are soon singled out by the more shrewd and
experienced, and to their chagrin and disappointment, instantly removed
from their seats. They do not, however, go away with curses on their
lips, but receive a few things and are ordered to leave the house
without a _Palkee_.[132]
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