The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in BengalSivachandra Vasu
Religion
The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in Bengal
Sivachandra Vasu
Hindus; India -- Social life and customs; Women -- India
After the feast is over, the women, washing their hands and mouths,
express their good wishes for the safe delivery of the girl, and make
preparations for returning home. Here confusion and bustle ensue
consequent on the simultaneous desire of all to return home _first_, and
as the sun begins to set, their anxiety becomes more intense to see the
faces of their absent children; laying aside their wonted modesty, some
of them almost unblushingly make a rush and enter the _first Palkee_
that comes in their way, regardless alike of their sex and the rules of
decorum. If 100 families are invited, about ten _Palkees_ are retained.
Hackney carriages are sometimes substituted in place of _Palkees_, but
whatever arrangements are made it is next to impossible to satisfy at
least 200 people at one and the same time. The guests are never expected
to find their own conveyances. Before coming, some of them keep the
Palanquin waiting for an hour or so, while they are engaged at their
toilet and adorning their persons with divers ornaments. It is not
unfrequently the case on such occasions that females in poor
circumstances borrow ornaments from their more prosperous friends, in
order to appear in society to the best advantage. In the absence of
mental accomplishments, Hindoo ladies necessarily set a high value on
the jewels about their persons. Some twenty years back, massive articles
of gold were considered the most _recherche_ ornaments, so much so that
some rich ladies were adorned with gold articles alone to the weight of
6 or 7 lbs.; to an English lady, this might appear incredible, but it is
a fact which does not admit of any contradiction. Hindoo females are
religiously forbidden to wear gold ornaments about their feet, it being
considered a mark of disrespect to _Lukxmee_ (goddess of prosperity,)
hence they put on pairs of solid massive silver _malls_ or anklets,
weighing sometimes about 3 lbs.; though such massive articles are a
great incumbrance to the free motion of the limbs, they are nevertheless
used with great pleasure. Indeed it has been sarcastically remarked that
were a Hindoo lady offered a gold _grindstone_ to wear round her neck,
weighing some 20 lbs. she would gladly accept the offer and go through
the ordeal. But as the spread of English education has improved the
minds of the people, it has likewise improved their taste; instead of
massive gold ornaments, ladies of the present day prefer those of
delicate diamond cut workmanship, set with pearls and precious stones
such as _chick_, _sittahaur_, _tarahaur_, _seetee_, _tabij_, _bajoo_,
_jasum_, _nabaruttun taga_, bracelets of six or seven patterns, and
ear-rings of three or four kinds, for which girls in very early youth
perforate their ears in 8 or 10 places, as also their noses in two
places. By their choice of the modern ornaments they shew their
preference for elegance to mere weight. Brilliant Pearl necklaces[133]
of from seven to nine rows, and costly bijouteries of modern style,
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