5. No guests should be invited other than relations of the family, _ko-bun_ (people who are under obligations to the householder for kindness received, and stand in the place of children), and a few of the most intimate friends. But this rule refers only to the day of the wedding. 6. At a wedding or New Year's call, the use of _jū_ (lacquer boxes, containing confectionery, given as presents) is forbidden. 7. When a member of the family makes a visit to a relation or elsewhere, he should not carry valuable presents. When he is visiting a sick friend, he may take anything which happens to be at hand. 8. When there is death (_fukō_), and people come to the house on visits of condolence, no wine should be offered. 9. At a funeral (_butsuji_) wine should not be offered to the persons who follow to the grave. 10. On such occasions, the viands should be of five kinds only; but there should be no wine. If wine is offered, it should be given in soup-cups, not in wine-cups, nor should _tori-zakana_ (a dish served only with wine) be prepared. 11. On the occasion of the birth of a first child (_Uizan_), the presents from the grandparents should be as follows only: A cotton garment. One set (four boxes) of jū. One _taru_. Viands. From the other relations only small money-presents, if any should be sent. 2. When the child is taken to the _mura_ (village) temple (the occasion called _miya-mairi_), _jū_ may be offered to the grandparents, but not to others. 13. At the time of _hatsu-bina_ (girls' festival), and _hatsu-nobori_ (boys' festival), grandparents and other relations should not present _hina_ and _nobori_ (dolls and flags), the whole family should present a single _kami-nobori_ (paper-flag) and two _yari_ (spears), and relatives may also make small money-presents. II. For the _Bungen_ of a Farm-laborer. 1. The house may be five and a half _ken_ (about thirty-two feet) in length, and the roof should be of straw or bamboo thatch. 2. The presents at a wedding may be: One _tsu zura_ (a vine used in basket making). _Nagamochi_ (chests) are forbidden. 3. At entertainments, one _hira_ (dish) and one soup may be offered, but not in cups. 4. The collar and sleeve ends of the clothes may be ornamented with silk, and an _obi_ (belt) of silk or silk crêpe may be worn, but not in public. 5. Hair ornaments should consist of _norihiki_ and _motoi_, and nothing more. 6. Footwear should be _narazōri_ (sandals made at Nara) not _setta_ (sandals of iron and leather). Women are to wear bamboo-thonged sandals ordinarily, but at occasions of ceremony sandals with cotton thongs; men should wear only bamboo-thonged sandals on all occasions. 7. At the time of _Uizan_ (birth of first child) the grandparents may send two _jū_ (set of confectionery boxes), and money for rice and fish; other relations should send only money for fish.