The Historical Child: Paidology; The Science of the ChildChrisman, Oscar
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The Historical Child: Paidology; The Science of the Child
Chrisman, Oscar
Children; Manners and customs
"But this privilege men possess of remaining single, and giving
themselves up to a life of contemplation, is not shared by women. They
at all events cannot, under any circumstances, take vows of celibacy.
Subjected on all sides to the moral ascendancy of man, the very idea
that they could possibly place themselves in a state of independence and
out of men's power is not allowed to cross their minds. The opinion is
firmly established throughout the whole of India, that women were only
created for the propagation of the species, and to satisfy men's
desires. All women therefore are obliged to marry, and marriages are
carefully arranged before they arrive at a marriageable age."[52]
There were eight kinds of marriages described in the law, the Institutes
of Manu: "Of which one half are honorable, and differ from one another
only in some minute circumstances; in the fifth, the bridegroom bestows
gifts upon the bride, her father, and paternal kinsman; the last three
are rather species of unlawful connection, than forms of nuptial
contract; one being voluntary and by mutual consent; the other forcible
when a woman is seized, 'while she weeps and calls for assistance, after
her kinsmen and friends have been slain in battle'; the last, 'when the
damsel is sleeping, or flushed with strong liquor, or disordered in her
intellect."[53]
The following verses from the Rig Veda, a very ancient Aryan collection
of hymns, belonging to the Hindus, give the ceremony of marriage in
those olden times:
"21. O Visvâvasu! (god of marriage), arise from this place, for the
marriage of this girl is over. We extol Visvâvasu with hymns and
prostrations. Go to some other maiden who is still in her father's house
and has attained the signs of the age of marriage. She will be your
share, know of her.
"22. O Visvâvasu! arise from this place. We worship thee, bending in
adoration. Go to an unmarried maiden whose person is well developed;
make her a wife and unite her to a husband.
"23. Let the paths by which our friends go in quest of a maiden for
marriage be easy and free of thorns. May Aryaman and Bhaga lead us well.
O gods! may the husband and wife be well united.
"24. O maiden! the graceful sun had fastened thee with ties (of
maidenhood), we release thee now of those ties. We place thee with thy
husband in a place which is the home of truth and the abode of righteous
actions.
"25. We release this maiden from this place (her father's house), but
not from the other place (her husband's house). We unite her well with
the other place. O Indra! may she be fortunate and the mother of worthy
sons.
"26. May Pûshan lead thee by the hand from this place. May the two
Asvins lead thee in a chariot. Go to thy (husband's) house and be the
mistress of the house. Be the mistress of all, and exercise thine
authority over all in that house.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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