The Historical Child: Paidology; The Science of the ChildChrisman, Oscar
History
The Historical Child: Paidology; The Science of the Child
Chrisman, Oscar
Children; Manners and customs
As soon as the parents of a young man had discovered a suitable girl,
when the auguries were favorable, they provided themselves with presents
and went and formally asked for her. Then the parents of the girl, at a
favorable moment, gave their consent and accepted the presents. Then the
priest who presided at public and private ceremonies fixed on a lucky
day and great preparations were made. The wedding garments were
prepared, the stores for feasts and for presents were got together, and
all the many other things needed. A canopy was erected and all the
relatives and friends invited.
The marriage ceremony lasted for five days. The first day was the great
day, as it was the day on which the most important and solemn ceremonies
took place. The gods and the ancestors and other divinities were invited
to be present. Then a number of rites and ceremonies were performed, in
which the bride and bridegroom, the parents, and guests partook. Near
the close of these ceremonies the husband fastened round the neck of the
young wife the _tali_, the little gold ornament which all married women
wore round their necks, and which performed by the husband showed that
henceforth the woman was to be his property. The day was ended with a
specially magnificent feast.
Amongst the ceremonies of the second day was the placing of an ornament,
covered with gold-leaf or gold paper and entwined with flowers, on the
forehead of both husband and wife to avert the effects of the evil eye,
the spell which is cast by the looks of jealous or ill-disposed people.
On the third day the wife joined in the sacrifice offered by the
husband, the only occasion on which a woman could take an active part in
any of the sacrifices. The only remarkable ceremony on the fourth day
was that the newly married couple rubbed each other's legs three times
with powdered saffron, of which Dubois did not understand the meaning
and fancied its only object was to kill time, just as Europeans under
similar circumstances would spend their time in drinking. The fifth day
was chiefly occupied in dismissing the gods and the ancestors and the
other divinities that had been invited to the feast. Then followed the
distribution of presents. The festivity ended with a solemn procession
through the streets, which generally took place at night by torchlight
in the midst of squibs and fireworks of all kinds.
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