The Historical Child: Paidology; The Science of the ChildChrisman, Oscar
History
The Historical Child: Paidology; The Science of the Child
Chrisman, Oscar
Children; Manners and customs
In early times in India, widows married and men belonging to one caste
married widows of other castes. "A droll story is told of the daughter
of a householder of Mâlava who married eleven husbands successively; and
on the death of the eleventh husband the plucky widow would probably
have welcomed a twelfth, but 'even the stones could not help laughing at
her,' so she took to the life of an ascetic."[60] But Manu laid down
that a widow should never even mention the name of another man after
her husband had died, and that a second husband was nowhere prescribed
for virtuous women. A widower, whatever his age might be, and to
whatever caste he might belong, could marry again; but a woman of the
Brahminical caste, whether she ever lived with her husband or not, was
not allowed again to enter the married state. Sad was the state of these
widows, for they were cast out of society, but however despised they
might have been, if one remarried her lot became even worse, for she was
shunned absolutely by every honest and respectable person. "I once
witnessed amongst the _Gollavarus_, or shepherds, an instance of even
greater severity. A marriage had been arranged, and, in the presence of
the family concerned, certain ceremonies which were equivalent to
betrothal amongst ourselves had taken place. Before the actual
celebration of the marriage, which was fixed for a considerable time
afterwards, the bridegroom died. The parents of the girl, who was very
young and pretty, thereupon married her to another man. This was in
direct violation of the custom of the caste, which condemns to perpetual
widowhood girls thus betrothed, even when, as in this case, the future
bridegroom dies before marriage has been consummated. The consequence
was that all the persons who had taken part in the second ceremony were
expelled from caste, and nobody would contract marriage or have any
intercourse whatever with them. A long time afterwards I met several of
them, well advanced in age, who had been for this reason alone unable to
obtain husbands or wives, as the case might be."[61]
Suttee is the name given to the act of a woman immolating herself upon
the funeral pile with the body of her deceased husband. This was not
practiced in the early times of India, yet it was quite old as it was
known from the time of Alexander, and even earlier. It continued down
till the nineteenth century, when a noted Hindu, Raja Ram Mohun Roy, got
up such an agitation against it that Lord William Bentinck,
Governor-General of India, enacted a law in 1829, which prohibited
suttee within British dominion and made all assistance, aid, or
participation in any act of it to be murder and punishable with death.
But it did not fully cease till near the middle of the century.
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