The Historical Child: Paidology; The Science of the ChildChrisman, Oscar
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The Historical Child: Paidology; The Science of the Child
Chrisman, Oscar
Children; Manners and customs
In marriage there were many parts to the ceremony, all of which had to
be rigorously observed. During pregnancy there were rites to secure
conception, a rite to cause a male child to be born, rites to insure
protection to the child in the womb, and sometime between the fourth and
eighth month was the ceremony of the husband affectionately parting the
wife's hair.
On the birth of a child a rite was performed and a secret name given to
the child, known only to the parents. The child was weaned at eight
months, at which time he was given his first solid food, and an
appropriate ceremony went with it. At one year another rite was
performed, at which time the child's head was shaved, leaving such hair
as might be desired for its arrangement as was the custom of the family.
The ceremony of initiation, or the giving over of the boy to his teacher
for education, was a very important affair, participated in by the boy
and by his teacher. After he had finished his education, the student
returned home, which was the occasion for another important ceremony,
which was followed by his marriage and the student was then changed into
a householder. At the time of the initiation, the triple cord or sacred
thread, which was worn by the three upper castes, was bestowed upon the
boy. The age of the boy differed at this time according to which caste
he belonged, the Brahmin boy being initiated between 8 and 16, the
Kshatriya between 11 and 22, and the Vaisya between 12 and 24.
=Adoption.= "When a Hindu had no sons, because of his wife's failure to
bear them to him or because the sons borne to him had all died, two
things were left to him to do, to take another wife or to adopt a son.
If he adopted a child it was generally from among his own relatives or
if a Brahmin, at any rate from his own caste. He might adopt a child or
an adult, just as he should choose. Girls were adopted, but there were
very few instances of such. The adoption was an event of importance and
it was attended with solemn ceremonies.
"The adopted son renounces wholly and forever all his claims to the
property and succession of his natural father, and acquires the sole
right to the heritage of his father by adoption. The latter is bound to
bring him up, to feed him, and to treat him as his own son; to have the
ceremony of _upanayana_, or the triple cord, performed for him, and to
see him married. The adopted son, in his turn, is obliged to take care
of his adoptive father in his old age and in sickness, just as if he
were his natural father, and to _preside at his obsequies_. On the death
of his adoptive father he enters into full possession of his
inheritance--assets as well as liabilities. Should there be any property
left, he enjoys it; but if, on the other hand, there are debts, he is
bound to pay them. He is, moreover, by his adoption admitted into the
_gothram_ or family stock of the adopter, and is considered to have left
that in which he was born."[66]
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