The history and poetry of finger-ringsEdwards, Charles
History
The history and poetry of finger-rings
Edwards, Charles
Rings
The handing of the ring from the minister to some one of the persons
present has a reason broader than that which Larpent is pleased to
assign, as we consider we have shown. We confirm it by saying, that
the Jewish law requires, at the time of marriage, that a valuable
consideration should pass from the bridegroom to the bride. This
consideration is represented by the ring, which, therefore, must not
be of less value than the _minimum_ fixed by the law. And as this
value has to be ascertained and attested, which cannot be done by
less than two witnesses, the officiating minister or Rabbi, after
making the inquiries required by law, examines the ring and hands it
to the presiding officer of the synagogue, (a layman, who is supposed
to know more about the value of gold or silver than a Rabbi,) who
also examines and hands it back to the minister; and these two,
the minister and the officer of the synagogue, then witness that
the article is of that value which the law requires. We say this
advisedly; and can add as positively that the ring is never handed
round to third persons.
At a marriage to which the author was invited--a marriage between
a Jewish merchant and the amiable daughter of a learned Rabbi in
New-York--the usual course was not departed from. The father of
the bride, who officiated, received the ring from the bridegroom,
ascertained that it was the young man’s own property lawfully
acquired, examined and then delivered it to the president of the
synagogue. He, also, examined and handed the ring back to the
minister, who, finally, performed the ceremony.
§ 12. Some married women are so rigidly superstitious or firm that
they will not draw off their wedding-ring to wash or at any other
time: extending the expression “till death do us part” even to the
ring.[353]
And there is a superstition connected with the wear of the ring,
worked into this proverb:
“As your wedding-ring wears,
Your cares will wear away.”
§ 13. Gold-wire rings of three twisted wires were given away at
weddings; and Anthony Wood relates of Edward Kelly, a “famous
philosopher” in Queen Elizabeth’s days, that “Kelly, who was openly
profuse beyond the modest limits of a sober philosopher, did give
away in gold-wire rings (or rings twisted with three gold wires)
at the marriage of one of his maid servants, to the value of
£4,000.”[354]
§ 14. A gold ring has been discovered in Rome, which has the subject
of Cupid and Psyche cut into the metal.[355] We give an enlarged
illustration of it. Psyche is figured more ethereally than she
generally appears upon gems. The lower portion of this emanation
seems to partake of the delicate plumage of the butterfly; and the
whole prettily illustrates the soul. There is a strong contrast
between these figures; and we are inclined to think the designer
intended it. While Psyche is all that we have said, the other form
comes up to Colman’s theatrical Cupid:
“Fat, chubby-cheeked and stupid.”
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