The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and AfricaChild, Lydia Maria
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The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and Africa
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
In a few days, the bridal tent is taken down, and the husband removes
to his accustomed dwelling. During the two first years, the wife is not
allowed to visit her parents, unless upon some great emergency; and
then she must sit down outside of their hut, without presuming to enter
it. At the end of that period, she goes to see them, and is loaded with
presents.
Among one tribe of the Calmucks, called Soongas, marriages are
celebrated on horseback. The bride, mounted on a fleet horse, gallops
off at full speed; the lover pursues; and if he overtakes her, she is
carried to his hut, and becomes his wife without further ceremony,
except an entertainment to friends. If the damsel be disinclined to the
match, the lover seldom succeeds in overtaking her before they arrive
at the destined goal.
The Calmucks are, almost without exception, remarkably expert riders.
Even matrons of eighty years old will gallop twenty miles without
stopping, and children pursue the fleet-footed antelopes half a day,
upon their unshod horses.
If men think they have sufficient cause for jealousy, they sometimes
put their wives to death with their own hands; but if a woman should,
in a sudden fit of desperation, kill her husband, her nose and ears
would be cut off, and she would be sold for a slave. They have very
definite laws concerning marriages and marriage portions; and certain
punishments are appointed for those who attempt to break off a match.
The Buraits, on the frontiers of China, live in a manner very similar
to the other Tartars. They have in their huts images of wood, felt,
or tin, intended to represent good and evil spirits. The women are
not permitted to approach these images, or even to pass before them.
Polygamy is lawful among this tribe; and they take from one wife to
five, according to their means of support. A girl costs from five head
of cattle to one hundred; and the wealthy sometimes give five hundred.
The dowry given with the bride generally amounts to about one-fourth of
the price paid for her. A new tent is built for a wedding. Festivities
are kept up for five days, with singing, dancing, wrestling, and
horse-racing, and each day a horse is killed, to feast relations and
friends. Owing to the general contempt in which women are held, boys
treat their fathers with much more respect than their mothers. When a
woman dies, cooking utensils, a pipe, and a quantity of tobacco are
buried with her, for her use in another world, as bows and arrows are
always buried with the men.
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