The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and AfricaChild, Lydia Maria
History
The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and Africa
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
The Calmucks are not, like some of the Tartar tribes, addicted to
drunkenness; but they occasionally have festivals, during which they
continue to drink for half a day without interruption. On these
occasions the young women place themselves by the men, and sing songs
of love, or war, or fabulous adventures.
The necessity of procuring fresh pasturage for their flocks, induces
frequent migrations among the Calmucks; and these occasions are
celebrated with a good deal of parade and festivity. The khan, whose
tents are carried before him, heads the procession, accompanied by the
princes on horseback. Women of any distinction have awnings over their
saddles, to protect them from the sun and rain.
The doctrines of Lamaism forbid polygamy; therefore the Calmucks, with
very few exceptions, have but one wife. The husband may, however,
put away his partner, and seek another, whenever it pleases him; and
the wife may do the same. Such separations are not uncommon. Princes
sometimes marry their half-sisters; but in general the Calmucks do not
wed within the fourth or fifth degree of relationship; and they very
rarely marry out of their own class.
When a young man has fixed his mind upon a girl, he sends to her
relations to make proposals. If these are accepted, the lover gives an
entertainment at the house of the bride’s parents, where the betrothal
is forthwith celebrated. In case of refusal, the young man sometimes
seizes the damsel and carries her off full speed. The parents cannot
reclaim their daughter, if he succeeds in getting her within his hut,
and preventing her escape until the next day; but this compulsory
proceeding does not release him from the obligation of paying the
accustomed price, in reindeer, camels, horses, or flocks.
When the terms are settled in a more amicable way, a magician is
consulted to ascertain what day will be most fortunate for the
nuptials; and sometimes the superstitious young couple are required to
wait several months. On the appointed day, the bridegroom erects a neat
new tent of white felt, very near the bride’s parents. Her relations
place her on horseback to be conducted to her husband; and custom
requires that she should offer some resistance to the proceeding. A
priest purifies the hut with incense and prayers, while the young
couple go out and squat beside each other on their heels, according
to the Tartar fashion. The priest comes forth, sits down cross-legged
before them, and repeats the usual prayer.
A dish of minced meat is offered the young couple, of which the man
eats three handfuls, but the woman refuses to partake. The caps of the
bridal pair are then thrown into the hut, and an entertainment begins,
which lasts till midnight. Before they separate, the married and
unmarried females have a contest together for the bride; the former,
who always gain the victory, arrange the girl’s head-dress after the
fashion of matrons.
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