The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and AfricaChild, Lydia Maria
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The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and Africa
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
The second kind of marriage is called marriage by _ambelanack_. In this
case the husband is adopted by the bride’s father, remains with him,
works under his authority, and both parents and children are considered
as the property of the head of the family. A man who is married in
this way cannot take another wife, without the consent of his adopted
father; but if he acquires, either by industry or inheritance, a sum
sufficient to pay the expenses attendant upon other forms of marriage,
he can at any time secure to himself and wife the privileges belonging
to them.
By the third mode, the husband gives and receives a sum of money, and
the wife is on a perfect equality with him. This is called marriage by
_simando_, and takes place less frequently than the other forms. In
this case, a second wife cannot be taken without divorcing the first,
and giving her half the fortune; but if the wife herself seeks the
separation, she loses her right to half the property, and can only
receive her original dowry.
The various regulations connected with these different forms of
marriage, and consecrated by custom only, are carefully observed.
The wedding ceremonies are very simple. The father of one of the
parties, or the chief of the village, joins their hands and pronounces
them husband and wife. An _iman_ performs this office for those who are
Mohammedans. A bamboo broken in the presence of the parties and their
relations constitutes a divorce.
The Redjangs are gentle, patient, polite, and serious. They bathe
frequently, but never wash their garments.
The Lampongs, who reside in the south part of Sumatra, are
distinguished by a complexion lighter than the other tribes. In the
shape of their faces, and the form of their eyes, they resemble the
Chinese. The tallest and handsomest women of the island belong to this
tribe. Their manners are much more free than the Redjangs, and they are
less scrupulous about the character of their wives and daughters. It
is a common thing to see a young girl sitting out of doors, perfuming
and arranging her lover’s hair, while he lays his head in her lap,
and looks up affectionately in her face. They generally marry by
_jourjour_, and the bride is always protected by the _tali koulo_, or
bond of friendship. Marriages by _simando_ are very rare. At festivals,
a young man is appointed to select the couples that shall dance
together. On these occasions both men and women use perfumed ointments,
and paint their faces in fantastic style.
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