The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and AfricaChild, Lydia Maria
History
The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and Africa
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
Barrow speaks thus of the Kaffers: “A party of women were the first
who advanced to salute us, laughing and dancing round the wagons, and
putting on all the coaxing manners they could invent, in order to
procure from us tobacco and brass buttons. Good temper, animation,
and a cheerful turn of mind, beamed in all their countenances. We
found them to be modest without reserve; extremely curious without
being troublesome; lively but not impudent; and sportive without the
least shadow of being lascivious. The most striking feature in their
character was a degree of sprightliness, activity, and vivacity, that
distinguished them from the women of most uncivilized nations, who are
generally reserved toward strangers.”
The African laws are simple and rude, like their habits; but it appears
from the accounts of travellers that widows retain peaceable possession
of their property, and are able to transact business with perfect
security. This implies a degree of good order in society, which one
would not expect to find in uncivilized states.
In most of the tribes on the southern and western coast of Africa,
women do not inherit the property of their fathers, either real or
personal.
Among the Wolofs when a young man wishes to marry, he signifies it
to the parents of the girl, who meet him at some public place in the
village. When the young couple are surrounded by a circle of relatives,
the man offers as much gold or merchandise, oxen or slaves, as he can
afford to pay. The girl’s consent is not necessary for the completion
of the bargain; but if she refuses to fulfil the promise of her
parents, she can never marry another; should she attempt to do so, the
first lover can claim her as his slave. As soon as the parties have
agreed upon the price, the young man pays the required sum; and the
same evening the bride is conveyed to the bridegroom’s hut, by a troop
of relations and friends. On these occasions she always wears a white
veil of her own weaving. The rejoicings continue for eight days, during
which the guests are abundantly supplied with palm wine and other
liquors.
Among the Sereres, when a lover has formally obtained the consent
of relations, he summons his friends to assist him in carrying off
the object of his choice. The bride shuts herself up in a hut with
her companions, where they maintain an obstinate siege before they
surrender to the assailants.
In Bambuk, the bride is escorted to the hut of her future husband. When
she arrives at the door, she takes off her sandals, and a calabash of
water is placed in her hand. She knocks, and the door is opened by the
relations of the bridegroom, who remains seated in the midst of the
hut. The bride kneels before him, pours the water over his feet, and
wipes them with her mantle, in token of submission.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
Reviews
Reviews
No reviews yet
Be the first to share your thoughts on this work.
Elsewhere in the archive
Join the Discussion
Join the discussion
Sign in to leave a comment or review.
Sign InorCreate an account