The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and AfricaChild, Lydia Maria
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The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and Africa
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
Mr. Park speaks of seeing a betrothed girl at Baniseribe, who knelt
before her lover, and presenting a calabash of water, desired him to
wash his hands; when he had done so, she drank the water, apparently
with delight; this being considered a great proof of fidelity and love.
In Madagascar, wives salute their husbands just returned from war, by
passing the tongue over his feet, in the most respectful manner.
Among the Mandingoes, when the lover has settled the bargain with the
girl’s parents, she is covered with the bridal veil of white cotton,
and seated on a mat, with all the elderly women of the neighborhood
ranged in a circle round her. They give her sage instructions
concerning the performance of her duties and the propriety of her
deportment as a matron. A band of female _guiriots_ come in and disturb
their serious lessons with music, singing, and dancing. The bridegroom
in the mean time entertains his friends without doors. A plentiful
supper is provided, and the evening is devoted to mirth. Before
midnight the bride is privately conducted by her female relatives to
the hut which is to be her future residence. The bridal party generally
continue dancing and singing until broad daylight.
At the island of St. Louis, the native women often contract a sort
of limited marriage with Europeans, and their vows are said to be
generally observed with exemplary fidelity. They take the Portuguese
title of Signora, and the children receive the name of their father.
The bridal ceremonies are similar to the Wolofs. When the European
husband leaves the country, he provides for his family according to his
wealth, and the generosity of his character; and his wife is at liberty
to marry again when she pleases.
In Congo, marriage is sometimes consecrated with Catholic ceremonies,
by the converts to Christianity; but the pagan natives preserve the
simplicity of their ancient forms. When a young man has selected
a damsel that pleases him, he sends presents to her relatives,
accompanied by a cup of palm wine. If the presents are accepted, and
the wine drank, it is considered a sign of approbation. He visits
the parents, and having received his bride from their hands, conducts
her to his own house. Here she remains, till he is satisfied with
regard to her temper, industry, and general propriety of deportment.
Sometimes this season of probation lasts one year, and sometimes two
or three. If either party becomes dissatisfied with the other, they
separate, without any loss of reputation; but if mutually pleased,
they signify it publicly to friends and relations, and the event is
celebrated by a feast. The Portuguese missionaries made a strong effort
to abolish this custom; but the people were much attached to it; and
mothers universally declared they would not subject themselves to the
reproaches of their daughters, by urging them to an indissoluble union
with individuals, whose tempers and dispositions they had never seen
tried.
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