The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and AfricaChild, Lydia Maria
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The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and Africa
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
The body is conveyed to the grave in straw mats. Women hired for
the occasion follow it with loud shrieks, and the most extravagant
demonstrations of sorrow. They return howling to the hut, where they
pronounce an eulogium on the deceased. If they perform their parts
well, they are complimented by relations, and are treated with palm
wine, or other spirituous liquors. For eight days in succession
these women go to the grave at sunrise and sunset, and renew their
lamentations, saying, “Hadst thou not wives, and arms, and horses, and
pipes, and tobacco? Wherefore then didst thou leave us?”
The relations and friends of the deceased remain in seclusion with his
widow eight days, to console her grief.
The Abyssinian women wound their faces while they lament for the dead.
In Congo, the relatives shave their heads, anoint their bodies, and rub
them with dust, during the eight days of mourning. They consider it
very indecorous for a widow to join in any festivity for the space of
one year after her husband’s death.
In Dahomey and Ashantee, wives, and slaves of both sexes, often one
hundred in number, are slaughtered at the death of the king, from the
idea that he will need their attendance in another world; and every
year, at least one human being and many animals are killed “to water
the graves” of the royal family. The government of Yarriba is more mild
and paternal; but it is the custom for a few of the king’s favorite
wives, and some of his principal ministers, to take poison, which is
presented to them in parrots’ eggs, in order that they may go to serve
his majesty in the world of spirits.
Fragrant flowers and a quantity of gold are sometimes buried with
people of rank, for their use in another world. On the death of a young
girl, the body is washed, anointed with palm oil, decorated in all
her finery, and laid upon a bed; her companions join in a dance around
her; and when this ceremony is concluded, she is buried in her best
clothes. The graves are covered with little mounds of straw, on which a
lance, bow, and arrow are placed for the men, and a mortar and pestle
for a woman. The solemnities always conclude with a feast, at which the
guiriots dance, while all join in singing the praises of the deceased.
The Africans, like the Asiatics, do not use knives or forks. All eat
from a wooden bowl, which is placed on a mat, or low stool, in the
middle of the hut. The women seldom eat until the men have done. After
the repast a woman brings a calabash of water, and offers it to each of
the guests, for the purpose of washing his hands and mouth. In Tesee
the women are not allowed to eat eggs, though the men eat them without
scruple. It is not known in what the custom originated, but nothing
will affront a woman of that country so much as to offer her an egg.
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