The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and AfricaChild, Lydia Maria
History
The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and Africa
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
When the wives of Arab chiefs accompany their husbands in devout
pilgrimages to Mecca, they are carried in a litter borne by two
camels. Fifteen miles from Mecca is a small hill, much resorted to
by the devout, called Djebel Arafat, or the Mountain of Gratitude.
On this spot, according to Mohammedan belief, Adam and Eve met, were
reconciled, built a house, and lived together, after a separation
of forty, or, as some say, five hundred, years. The women of Mecca
are said to be free in their manners, even to boldness. This may be
partly owing to the constant sight of strangers, who visit the city
as pilgrims, and partly to the dullness and indifference of the men,
induced by their abject poverty and ignorance.
But the Arabs are in general extremely jealous of the honor of their
women. They would immediately stab a wife or daughter, who was
supposed to have disgraced herself. A single life is considered so
disrespectable, that a woman, in order to avoid it, will marry a man
very much her inferior, or even consent to be the second wife of one
already married.
The poor Arabs live in small thatched huts, and sleep on straw mats.
Those who are richer have low houses of stone with terrace roofs; and
here and there may be found an extraordinary individual, who has sofas,
carpets, mirrors, and fountains. Those whose circumstances do not
admit of their having separate apartments for women, are careful, when
they invite any one to the house, to enter before him, and cry aloud,
_Tarick! Tarick!_ (Retire! Retire!) At this warning all the females
immediately hide themselves.
If the wife of a Bedouin is seduced, the laws allow him to kill any of
the offender’s family whom he may happen to meet. Sometimes the affair
is settled by the seducer’s father giving the injured husband three or
four of his daughters to sell, for as high a price as he can obtain.
The Kereks are not so kind to their wives as the Bedouins, with whom
they often intermarry. A woman cannot inherit the merest trifle of
her husband’s property. Even during his lifetime he does not supply
her with necessary clothing; she is obliged to beg of her father, or
steal her husband’s wheat, and sell it clandestinely. No greater insult
can be offered to a Kerek than to tell him he sleeps under the same
blanket with his wife; for they do not allow the women to share their
apartments. When a wife is ill, they send her back to her parents,
saying they paid for a healthy woman, and cannot have the expense of an
invalid. Butter is used very freely by this tribe, and they consider
it the height of meanness to _sell_ it. A butter-seller is a most
contemptuous epithet; and the daughters of such a parsimonious person
would have no chance to get husbands.
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