The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and AfricaChild, Lydia Maria
History
The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and Africa
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
The wedding ceremonies are simple. All the relations send presents of
furniture, clothes, or jewels, which are the property of the wife in
case of her husband’s death. Sometimes, when the marriage contracts are
signed, a solemn promise is exacted from the man that he will never
marry again during the lifetime of his wife. The bridal ceremony is
performed by an iman or priest, who joins the hands of the parties, and
recites certain prayers from the Koran. It sometimes takes place at
the bridegroom’s house, but more generally at a mosque. The day before
the wedding the bride goes to the bath, where her female relations and
friends take off her dress, sing a bridal song, and offer their various
gifts. The parties are escorted to the mosque in state, accompanied
by friends and relations in arabahs,[3] drawn by oxen decorated with
ribbons and garlands. The arabah in which the bride is conveyed is
closed, but the others are open. The bridal veil is bright red bordered
with yellow. The eyebrows of the bride are united in one broad black
streak, by means of antimony and gall nuts; and her fingers are stained
with hennah. When the new part of the nail forms a contrast with the
stained part, it is considered peculiarly beautiful. Sometimes a
childish love of ornament is carried so far, that gilt paper cut in
the form of crescents, and various fantastic shapes, are stuck upon
the face. Before the arabah which contains the bride are borne several
trees surrounded with hoops, from which hang festoons of gold thread
or tinsel, which wave in the breeze, and glitter when the sun glances
on them. The procession consists of dancers, musicians, mountebanks,
horses loaded with the furniture and apparel of the bride, and the
relatives and friends on horseback, or in carriages.
When the bridegroom leaves the mosque, his friends strike him smartly
on the shoulders for good luck. Girls are usually betrothed at the age
of three or four years, and receive the nuptial benediction at twelve
or fourteen. The custom of not allowing the bridegroom to see the bride
until after the ceremony is contrary to the precepts of the Koran; for
Mohammed says to one of his disciples, who was about to take a wife,
“First see her, that you may judge how you should like to live with
her.”
The wedding festivities last four days; the men feasting and frolicking
in one set of apartments, the women in another. They usually begin
on Monday, to avoid interfering with the Mohammedan Sabbath, which
comes on Friday. A single life is very disreputable, and widows almost
invariably marry again, unless they are very old. A Turkish woman is
respected by her family and the world in proportion to the number of
her children. In general they have very numerous claims to this kind of
distinction. The Koran declares that a woman who dies unmarried is in
a state of reprobation.
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