The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and AfricaChild, Lydia Maria
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The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and Africa
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
The Bramin breaks a cocoa-nut in two, blesses the _tali_, which all
present are required to touch, and gives it to the bridegroom, who
hangs it round the neck of the bride. The _tali_ is a golden ornament
for the neck, made in various forms, and is worn by all married women,
in the same manner as the wedding-ring with us. The young couple walk
three times round the fire, and the bridegroom swears in presence of
the Bramin that he will take care of his wife. He then casts into the
fire boiled rice and butter, and she casts in parched rice. The priest
repeats prayers while he mixes a little saffron with raw rice. This he
first sprinkles over the shoulders of the husband, and then of the
wife; all who are present rise and perform the same ceremony, by way
of benediction. In the marriages of princes, pearls are sometimes used
instead of rice. The rest of the day is spent in diversions, and the
last public procession takes place in the evening.
Next day, they hasten to pull down the _pendal_; because it would be
considered a very bad omen if it should happen to take fire. The bride
is often so very young that she remains at her father’s house for a
considerable time after the wedding. When this is the case, she is
afterward given to her husband with similar ceremonies and festivities,
called “the second, or little, marriage.” The Hindoo brides wear a
hymeneal crown, and the color of the nuptial robe is golden yellow.
Until a wife becomes a mother, she is obliged to obey the commands of
her mother-in-law, and sees her husband by stealth. The birth of a
child is attended with many religious ceremonies. The husband, assisted
by Bramins, sprinkles the house with holy water, and all the inmates
anoint themselves with oil, and wash themselves. The mother is bathed,
and drinks a certain beverage prescribed for such occasions. On the
tenth day, friends and relations assemble to give a name to the infant;
but the Bramin first consults the planets, endeavors by prayer to avert
any evil influence, and ties a _zinar_, or amulet, about the neck of
the child. Presents are then made to the priests, and the ceremony is
concluded with a feast and rejoicings.
The Hindoo women make no use of a cradle. The babe, unshackled by any
clothing or bandages, is laid on a large piece of cloth stretched
on pieces of wood, something like a small quilting frame. This is
suspended by strong cords from the ceiling, and two women swing it, by
pushing it from one to the other.
When the child has attained the age of six months, it is fed for the
first time with rice prepared with milk and sugar. On this occasion a
feast is made and all the relations invited.
If a child dies, the mother sits at the door, or by the river’s side,
and utters loud lamentations, like the following: “Ah, my Huree-das,
where has he gone? Who has taken my golden image? I never saw a face
like unto his! He played round me like a golden top! Take me with thee!”
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