The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and AfricaChild, Lydia Maria
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The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and Africa
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
When the day is fixed for the wedding, the bride’s father builds a
bower of lattice-work in the courtyard of his house. The erection of
this _pendal_, or marriage bower, is considered a publication of the
bans, and friends and relations immediately pay a ceremonious visit.
The female friends, walking under a canopy, bring presents of betel to
the young couple. In the midst of the court is set up a stone image of
Polear, god of marriage. The Bramins make offerings of cocoas, bananas,
and betel, praying that the god would be propitious to the marriage. As
soon as the _pendal_ is finished, the image is removed. The bridegroom,
richly dressed, and accompanied by his friends in festal attire, is
conducted to the house of the bride. Here a particular ceremony is
performed, called _taking away the looks_; for the Hindoos believe the
most deplorable consequences would ensue, if any person looked on the
young man with envious, or malicious eyes. To avert this disaster, they
prepare a basin of water colored red, which they turn round three times
before the face of the bridegroom, and then throw it into the street;
sometimes they tear a strip of cloth before him, and throw the pieces
different ways; and sometimes they fasten certain mystic rings on the
heads of the couple. The bridegroom and bride, splendidly dressed, are
carried about for several days in palanquins, accompanied by a long
train of relations and friends, some riding on horses, and some on
elephants, preceded by musicians and dancing girls. These processions
are generally in the evening, attended by illuminations and fireworks.
While these ceremonies continue, the dancing girls meet in the _pendal_
morning and evening, and rub the young couple with _naleng_, the small
green seed of a plant sacred to marriage. While the assembled guests
are dining, the bride and bridegroom eat together from the same plate.
This is the only time during her whole life that a Hindoo wife is
allowed to eat with her husband. On the wedding day, the bride and
bridegroom sit beside each other, at one end of the _pendal_, which
is lighted with a great number of lamps. The Bramins, on a raised
platform, surrounded with jars of water, offer prayers to their gods.
They then kindle the sacrificial fire, with various kinds of sacred
wood, and repeat prayers and invocations, while they throw into the
flames incense, sandal-wood, oil, butter, rice, and other things. When
the prayers are ended, the father of the bride puts her hand within
that of the bridegroom, calls the god of fire to witness his words, and
then repeats after the Bramin: “I, ----, the son of ---- and grandson
of ----, give my daughter to thee, son of ---- and grandson of ----.”
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