The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and AfricaChild, Lydia Maria
History
The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and Africa
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
There are likewise in Thibet female devotees, who, like nuns, devote
themselves entirely to celibacy and the duties of religion. They do not
use a rosary to facilitate their prayers; but, instead of this, they
have a painted barrel, with gilt letters on it, placed upright in a
case, which has an opening to admit the hand. It revolves upon an axis,
and as they twirl it round, they repeat certain appointed words.
The Thibetian customs with regard to marriage are very extraordinary.
One woman is the wife of a whole family of brothers, be they ever
so numerous. This custom is not confined to the lower ranks, but
prevails in the most opulent families. The oldest brother has the
right of choice. The courtship is very brief, and the marriage quite
unceremonious. If the parents of the damsel approve his request, they
carry their daughter to his house, where the relations meet and carouse
for three days, with music and dancing. The priests, who are bound to
shun the sight of women, have no share in the scene. Mutual consent is
the only bond of union. The engagement thus formed cannot be dissolved,
unless both the parties consent to a separation; and even where this
is the case, they are never after at liberty to form a new connection.
These women, who are said to be very jealous of their husbands, enjoy
a degree of freedom and consideration unknown to the Hindoos. They are
the acknowledged mistresses of their family, have liberty to go where
they please, and are generally well supported by the joint earnings of
their numerous partners. When captain Turner was at Teshoo Loomboo, he
was acquainted with five brothers, who all lived together in the utmost
harmony and affection, with one wife among them all. The first-born
child belongs to the oldest brother, the second to the next of age, and
so on.
Instances of infidelity are said to be rare. In such cases, a man
is condemned to pay a pecuniary fine; a woman receives corporeal
punishment. Public opinion is said not to be very fastidious concerning
the character of unmarried females.
In Thibet, the exchange of scarfs accompanies almost all the courtesies
of life. When a visit is paid, scarfs are exchanged; and every letter
is accompanied with a scarf, however distant may be its place of
destination. White and red are in use; but the former is considered
more genteel, and is respectful in proportion to its fineness. These
scarfs are soft, thin, glossy, and of dazzling whiteness. They are
woven with damask figures, and usually have some sacred motto near the
fringe at the ends.
Women of the laboring classes are inured to a great deal of toil. They
plant, weed, reap, and thresh grain, and are exposed to the roughest
weather, while their indolent husbands are perhaps living at their ease.
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