The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and AfricaChild, Lydia Maria
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The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and Africa
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
A bridegroom knows nothing of the character or person of his intended
wife, except what he gathers from the report of some female relative,
or confidant, who undertakes to arrange the marriage, and determine
the sum that shall be paid for the bride. Very severe laws are made
to prevent deception and fraud in these transactions. On the day
appointed for the wedding, the damsel is placed in a close palanquin,
the key of which is sent to the bridegroom, by the hands of some trusty
domestic. Her relations and friends, accompanied by squalling music,
escort her to his house; at the gate of which he stands in full dress,
ready to receive her. He eagerly opens the palanquin and examines his
bargain. If he is pleased, she enters his dwelling, and the marriage
is celebrated with feasting and rejoicing; the men and women being all
the time in separate apartments. If the bridegroom is dissatisfied, he
shuts the palanquin, and sends the woman back to her relations; but
when this happens, he must pay another sum of money equal to the price
he first gave for her. A woman who unites beauty with accomplishments
brings from four to seven hundred louis d’ors; some sell for less than
one hundred. The apartments of the women are separated from those of
the men by a wall, at which a guard is stationed. The wife is never
allowed to eat with her husband; she cannot quit her apartments without
permission; and he does not enter hers without first asking leave.
Brothers are entirely separated from their sisters at the age of nine
or ten years.
Divorces are allowed in cases of criminality, mutual dislike, jealousy,
incompatibility of temper, or too much loquacity on the part of the
wife.
The Chinese character is grave, ceremonious, and taciturn. It is said
that women are in the habit of answering concisely, and seldom speak
unless spoken to; nevertheless the Chinese proverb declares, “What
women have lost in their feet they have gained in their tongues.” If
female loquacity be a ground for divorce, it may render the marriage
contract very precarious, even in China. A husband can neither put
away his wife, nor sell her, until a divorce is legally obtained. If
she leaves him, he may immediately commence an action at law, by the
sentence of which she becomes his slave, and he is at liberty to sell
her to whom he pleases. If he leaves her for three years, she may, by
permission of the mandarins, marry again; but if she were to anticipate
their consent, she would be liable to very severe punishment.
A husband has always a right to sell an unfaithful wife for a slave.
Women do not inherit property, but it may be left to them by will.
Next to submission, industry is inculcated as the greatest of female
virtues. The following are extracts from a Chinese ballad: “Employment
is the guardian of female innocence; do not allow women time to be
idle; let them be the first dressed, and the last undressed, all the
year round.”
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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