The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and AfricaChild, Lydia Maria
History
The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and Africa
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
The Jews endeavored, both by law and custom, to keep their nation
unmixed by foreign intermarriages; and it was a favorite plan with
them to unite different branches of the same family. Thus the wife of
Abraham was his sister, by the father’s side; and Isaac and Jacob both
sought wives among their kinsmen. When a man died without heirs, the
nearest relation was bound to marry the widow; and if he refused to do
so, she publicly accused him before the elders, loosed the shoe from
his foot, spat in his face, and said, “So shall it be done unto the man
that will not build up his brother’s house.” And his name was called
in Israel, “The house of him that hath his shoe loosed.”
Notwithstanding the effort to keep the blood of the nation, and even
of individual families, unmixed from generation to generation, the
rule was sometimes broken through. Thus Moses married an Ethiopian
woman; the wife of Joseph was daughter of the priest of On; and Solomon
married the daughter of Pharaoh, king of Egypt.
It is generally supposed that formal ceremonies at a wedding were first
prescribed by Moses. According to the rabbies, the appointed days were
Friday for a bride who had never been married, and Thursday for a
widow. The contract was read and signed by ten witnesses, who were free
and of age. The bride was veiled and given to the bridegroom by her
parents. Her father said, “Take her according to the law of Moses;” and
the husband answered, “I take her according to that law.” Benedictions
were then pronounced both by the parents and the guests. The maidens
sang a marriage song, and the men danced around the bridegroom, while
the women danced around the bride. The feasting continued seven days,
unless the bride were a widow, in which case they continued but three
days. If a man married a number of wives in quick succession, he was
bound to allow a feast of seven days to each. At a later period the
form was somewhat changed. In the presence of ten witnesses, the
bridegroom said to the bride, “Be thou a wife to me according to the
law of Moses, and I will worship and honor thee, according to the word
of God, and will feed and govern thee, according to the custom of those
who worship, honor, and govern their wives faithfully. I give thee
fifty shekels for thy dowry.”
The story of Samson and Delilah seems to imply that custom did not
allow a young man to seek a girl in marriage without the intervention
of his parents. He said to his father and mother, “I have seen a woman
of the daughters of the Philistines; now therefore get her for me to
wife;” and when his parents started objections, he still pleaded, “Get
her for me; for she pleaseth me well.” The idea of applying to the
beautiful Delilah in person does not seem to have occurred to his mind.
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