The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea IslandsChild, Lydia Maria
History
The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea Islands
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
In Basil, female societies are formed from infancy of children of the
same age, and the same class. They are so particular about equality
of years, that sisters, whose ages differ a few years, belong to
separate societies, with whom they always meet at each other’s houses.
Friendships formed in this way constitute a strong bond of union.
Those that have belonged to the same society in childhood often meet,
after separation, in maturer years, with the affection of sisters. The
ladies usually carry work to parties, at which they assemble as early
as three in the afternoon. Parents have one day of the week, which they
call _le jour de famille_. On this occasion all their offspring, even
to the fifth and sixth generation, are assembled together. The Swiss
women marry at an early age. Not long since, there were six ladies in
Basil whose grandchildren were grandmothers. The manners of these hardy
mountaineers are patriarchal and affectionate. Young people are allowed
to marry according to their inclination, and matches from interested
motives are not common. In such a state of things, there is no need of
the restraints imposed among voluptuous nations. The Swiss girls have a
great deal of freedom allowed them, and are distinguished for innocence
and modesty.
The inhabitants of the Netherlands are proverbial for their industry
and love of acquiring money. Their women are eminently domestic, being
always busy in their household, or engaged in assisting their husbands
in some department of his business, such as keeping accounts, and
receiving money. They are not only thrifty themselves, but teach their
children to earn something as soon as they can use their fingers.
If they quit their domestic employments, it is to join some family
party, or take a short excursion with their husbands. Their stainless
floors, shining pewter dishes, and snow-white starched caps, all
indicate that notable housewives are common in the land. The Dutch
women are generally robust and rosy, with figures the reverse of tall
and slender. At Haarlem, a very ancient and peculiar custom is still
preserved. When a child is newly born, a wooden figure, about sixteen
inches square, covered with red silk and Brussels lace, is placed
at the door. This exempts the master of the house from all judicial
molestation, and is intended to insure the tranquillity necessary for
the mother’s health. To prevent the kind but injudicious intrusion of
friends, a written bulletin of the state of both mother and child is
daily affixed to the door or window; and finally a paper is posted on
the door, to signify on what day the mother will receive the ladies
of her acquaintance. Among the phlegmatic and thrifty Dutch, matches
are, of course, generally made from prudential motives, rather than the
impulses of passion, or the refinement of sentiment.
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