The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea IslandsChild, Lydia Maria
History
The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea Islands
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
Beautiful _hair_ is now, as it always has been, considered the greatest
external ornament of woman; and it is one with which the poor are often
endowed, as well as the rich. An Oxfordshire lass, with remarkably
beautiful hair, was courted by a young man, whose friends objected
to the match, unless the girl’s parents would bestow fifty pounds as
a dowry. She went to London, sold her hair to a wig-maker for sixty
pounds, and triumphantly returned with the requisite sum. The daughter
of an English clergyman, who had left his family in poverty, sold her
own rich profusion of glossy ringlets, to buy books for her brother
in college. A poor young German girl, who lived at service, had very
long auburn hair, so remarkable for its beauty, that wealthy ladies
repeatedly offered her large sums for it. She could never be persuaded
to part with it; but when, during the grievous wars of 1812 and 13, she
saw the rich and the noble giving their jewels for the relief of poor
soldiers, her shining tresses “of brown in the shadow, and gold in the
sun,” were silently and cheerfully laid on the altar of patriotism.
Who, after this, will say that beautiful hair, or any other _outward_
adorning, is the greatest ornament of woman?
The Catholics, Lutherans, and Episcopalians, usually celebrate their
marriages in church. Pope Innocent the Third is said to have been the
first who instituted this custom. Centuries ago, the ceremony was
performed at the door of the church, as if the interior of the building
were too holy for the purpose; but now the young couple kneel before
the altar, to receive their nuptial benediction. The Catholics consider
marriage as one of the sacraments.
During the time of Cromwell, the Puritans, in their zeal to change all
popish customs, good or bad, ordered that marriages should be performed
by magistrates, instead of priests; but the old custom was restored
by Charles, and though marriages under the previous law were declared
valid, many were so scrupulous about the sanction of the church, that
they were re-married by clergymen. The Roman Catholic clergy are still
required to live in celibacy, unless the pope grants them an especial
license to take a wife; and great numbers, both of men and women,
seclude themselves in convents, from the idea that there is a peculiar
sanctity in single life. In the Greek church, women under fifty years
of age are not allowed to become nuns; their priests are required to
marry, but in case of a wife’s death are never permitted to marry
again. Among the Protestants, I believe there is but one sect, who
consider matrimony unholy: the Shakers even require husband and wife to
separate when they join their community.
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