The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea IslandsChild, Lydia Maria
History
The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea Islands
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
The wedding ceremonies vary in particulars, in different nations
and districts, but there is a general resemblance between all the
Christian forms. The intention of marriage is proclaimed in the church,
on three successive public days, in order that any one who has legal
objections to the match, may have an opportunity to make them known.
When the bride and bridegroom stand before the altar, the priest says
to the man, “Wilt thou have this woman to be thy wedded wife, to live
together after God’s ordinance in the holy estate of matrimony? Wilt
thou love, honor, and comfort her, and keep her in sickness and in
health; and forsaking all others, keep thee only unto her, so long
as ye both shall live?” The bridegroom answers, “I will.” The same
question is then asked of the bride, excepting that she is required
to “obey and serve,” as well as “love and honor.” Then her father, or
guardian, giveth her to the bridegroom, who takes her by the right
hand, saying, “I take thee, ----, to be my wedded wife, to have and
to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for
poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death
us do part, according to God’s holy ordinance; and thereto I plight
thee my troth.” The bride then takes him by the right hand and repeats
the same form, with the addition of the word “obey.” The bridegroom
then puts a golden ring on the fourth finger of her left hand, saying,
“With this ring I thee wed, and with all my worldly goods I thee endow;
in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Ghost. Amen.” They
then kneel before the altar, while the priest utters a prayer for
their temporal and eternal welfare; at the close of which, he joins
their hands together, saying, “What God has joined together, let no
man put asunder.” Among many of the Protestant sects, weddings are not
celebrated in the church, but at the house of the bride’s father, or
some near relation. The members of the society of Friends have neither
priest nor magistrate to officiate at the ceremony. The bride and
bridegroom take each other by the hand, and make the required vows to
each other, in presence of the congregation and the elders; a public
record of the transaction is made, and attested by witnesses. This
society do not allow their members to marry individuals of a different
creed. In some parts of Switzerland, a marriage between a Protestant
and a Catholic is illegal.
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