The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea IslandsChild, Lydia Maria
History
The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea Islands
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
After the ceremony is performed, all the guests congratulate the newly
married pair, and wish them joy. The young couple generally choose from
among their intimate friends some individuals to officiate as bride’s
maids and groom’s men. These friends are dressed in bridal attire,
and during the wedding ceremony stand on each side of the bride and
bridegroom. In some places, the maidens chosen for this office carry
the bride’s gloves and handkerchief. In France, some people still
retain the old custom of having a silken canopy supported over the
heads of a young couple, by their attendants. Those who affect display
have five or six bride’s maids, and as many groom’s men; but it is
more common to have one or two of each. The groom’s men are expected
to make presents to the bride, and to be among the earliest friends,
who call at her new abode. The wedding cake is usually much decorated
with flowers, and sugar-work of various kinds. This is offered to all
visiters, and a slice neatly done up in paper, and tied with white
ribbons, is usually sent to intimate friends. The superstitious depend
very much upon having a piece of wedding cake to place under their
pillows; and if nine new pins from the bride’s dress are placed in it,
the charm is supposed to be doubly efficacious. The object is to dream
of the individuals they are destined to marry. Sometimes names are
written on small slips of paper, rolled up, and placed beside the cake;
and the first one taken out in the morning reveals the name of the
future spouse.
The Tyrolese place a similar value upon the bride’s garland, and the
pins that fasten it. The bride scatters flowers from a basket among
the young men of her acquaintance; and these flowers prognosticate
their future fortunes; the honeysuckle and alpine lily promise uncommon
prosperity, but the foxglove is an omen of misfortune. The Tyrolese
bridegroom distributes ribbons among the girls, to the different colors
of which they likewise attach prophetic meaning. The Dutch treat their
wedding-guests with a kind of liquor called “the bride’s tears;” and
small bottles of it, adorned with white and green ribbons, are sent as
presents to friends, accompanied with boxes of sweetmeats.
The time between the avowed intention of marriage and the performance
of the bridal ceremony varies in different places, and among different
ranks. One year seems to be the most general period of courtship; but
people of rank are often contracted to each other several years before
marriage; and in all nations there are some individuals who marry after
a few months’ or a few weeks’ acquaintance.
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