The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea IslandsChild, Lydia Maria
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The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea Islands
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
The connections formed in the South Sea islands hardly deserve the
name of marriage. They take place with very little ceremony, and are
dissolved whenever the husband wishes for a change. A woman often has
five or six husbands in succession, without the slightest disparagement
to her character; but whether she continues to like her companion or
not, she is bound to remain with him till he consents to a separation.
The first time a daughter is married, her parents present a hog, a
fowl, or a plantain tree, to their son-in-law, before it is allowable
for them to eat of his provisions; but this is not customary when the
woman has previously had a husband. In some places the lover offers
the bride’s father a present of fruit, fish, or other articles, the
value of which depends upon his rank. Chieftains of the higher classes
generally give a feast on the occasion of a daughter’s marriage. The
bride is loaded with mats of the finest workmanship, anointed with
fragrant oil, and veiled in delicate white gnatoo. The guests wear
wreaths of flowers, and floating red ribands, resembling silk, made of
the fine membrane of a tree. When the father gives his daughter to the
bridegroom, he reminds her that she is now _tabooed_, or belongs solely
and sacredly to her husband. The entertainment concludes with singing,
dancing, and wrestling.
If a powerful chief takes a fancy to a girl, he often carries her
off by force, and in spite of her resistance; ambitious parents not
unfrequently betroth their daughters in infancy to some man of rank,
and the contract must afterward be fulfilled; female captives taken
in war are always at the disposal of their conquerors; but, generally
speaking, mutual inclination constitutes the sole bond of union in all
the islands of the Pacific.
At Nukuhiva it is the custom for every woman to have two husbands. Some
favorite of a girl’s father becomes her husband, while she is yet very
young, and remains under the paternal roof, until she is contracted
in marriage to another individual. On this occasion, the wife and her
first companion remove to their new residence, and are both supported
by the second husband.
In the other islands, polygamy prevails under the more usual form of
a plurality of wives. The number varies according to circumstances;
the poor seldom have more than one or two; the chiefs sometimes have
twelve or fifteen. She who is of the best family is the principal wife;
the others are subordinate to her, and her children take precedence
of theirs. If the mothers are not noble, the children are never so,
whatever may be the rank of their father.
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