The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea IslandsChild, Lydia Maria
History
The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea Islands
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
It is a common practice for women of rank to be the adopted mother of
some individual for whom their husbands entertain great regard. One of
the wives of Finow performed this office for Mr. Mariner during his
residence in the Tonga islands, and he owed much of his convenience and
comfort to her motherly care.
The women of the Ladrone or Marian islands are of a dark yellow
complexion. Their teeth are spoiled by the constant use of betel. They
dress modestly, and wear the hair tied very low, almost in the neck. If
a man marries a woman whose fortune is superior to his, he performs the
menial offices of household labor; he cannot dispose of the smallest
article without her permission; and should his temper or habits prove
disagreeable, she can leave him, carrying with her all the children and
property. If he detects her in misconduct, he may kill the gallant,
but has no right to use her ill. Should he, on the contrary, be found
guilty of the same fault, his wife collects all the women of the
neighborhood, who destroy his garden, his grain, and his dwelling, and
beat him like so many furies, if they can find him.
Where the husband and wife possess an equal degree of property, labor
and authority is more equally divided. It is not probable that these
things are regulated by laws; but where women are upheld by powerful
connections, their husbands are compelled to yield to the right of the
strongest. According to an ancient law, if the father or brother of a
young woman saved a superior from any imminent danger, the latter was
required to prove his gratitude by marrying the girl without any dowry.
This law was repealed, but by the force of custom it is still generally
observed. Disputes between the men are decided by the women; but female
disputes are settled by themselves. When champions try their skill in
single combat, women adjudge the victory, and present the reward, which
usually consists of fruit or linen. Mourning is worn in the Ladrone
islands two months for a man, and six months for a woman.
In the South Sea islands men and women never eat together. Women take
their food in the same huts in which they sleep; and if any one should
presume to enter the eating-houses of the men, she would be immediately
strangled and thrown into the sea. Articles of luxury, such as pork,
turtle, shark, cocoa-nuts, bananas, or plantains, are forbidden to
women. These rigorous prohibitions are disobeyed whenever it can be
done secretly. When ships are near the shore, the women often swim
off to them in the night, and indulge their appetites by feasting on
various forbidden delicacies. Mr. Campbell says that he once saw the
queen of the Sandwich islands herself guilty of this transgression;
but she told him her life would be forfeited, should the circumstance
be discovered.
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