The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea IslandsChild, Lydia Maria
History
The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea Islands
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
The Milesian women being at one period much addicted to suicide, a
law was passed that all who died by their own hands should be exposed
to the public; and this effectually prevented an evil, which no other
means had been able to prevent.
The customs of Sparta differed in many respects from the rest of
Greece. When a match was decided upon, the mother, or nurse of the
bride, or some other woman who presided over the arrangements, shaved
the girl’s hair, dressed her in masculine attire, and left her alone in
an apartment at evening. The lover, in his every-day clothes, sought
an opportunity to enter by stealth, but took care to return to his own
abode before daylight, that his absence might not be detected by his
companions. In this manner only did custom allow them to visit their
wives, until they became mothers. Lycurgus passed a law forbidding
any dowry to be given to daughters, in order that marriage might take
place from motives of affection only. Marriage was much encouraged in
every part of Greece, and peculiarly so in Sparta. The age at which
both sexes might marry was prescribed by law, and any man who lived
without a wife beyond the limited time was liable to severe penalties.
Once every winter, they were compelled to run round the forum without
clothing, and sing a certain song, the words of which exposed them to
ridicule; they were not allowed to be present at the exercises where
beautiful young maidens contended; on a certain festival, the women
were allowed to drag them round an altar, beating them with their
fists; and young people were not required to treat them with the same
degree of respect that belonged to fathers of families.
Polygamy was not allowed, and divorces were extremely rare; but the
laws encouraged husbands to lend their wives when they thought proper.
Lycurgus reversed the Athenian custom, and allowed brother and sister
of the same mother to marry, while he forbade it if they both had
the same father. In Sparta there was a very ancient statue, called
Venus Juno, to which mothers offered sacrifice on the occasion of a
daughter’s marriage.
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