The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea IslandsChild, Lydia Maria
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The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea Islands
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
It was likewise customary to go out blindfolded and pull the first
plant of kail they met; its being big or little, crooked or straight,
indicated the size and shape of the future husband or wife; the
quantity of earth that clung to the root was prophetic of the degree
of wealth; and the taste of the stem indicated the natural temper and
disposition. Another trick was to go partly down cellar in the dark,
and throw a ball of thread down stairs, keeping hold of one end to
wind it; if any thing impeded it, they called out, “Who holds?” and it
was believed that a voice from the cellar would answer the name of the
future spouse. Sometimes an individual stole out unperceived and sowed
a handful of hemp-seed, repeating now and then, “Hemp-seed, I sow thee;
hemp-seed, I sow thee; and he that is to be my true love come after me
and pull thee.” Then looking over the left shoulder, the appearance of
the invoked person was supposed to be seen in the attitude of pulling
hemp: and no doubt it often was seen; for roguish lovers did not always
neglect such opportunities to advance their suit.
A volume might be filled with the “tricks” tried by young people to
ascertain who would be their future husband, or wife; but these few
specimens must suffice. Egyptian women were the most famous sorcerers
of the ancient world; and Gipseys have been most famed for magical
skill in modern times.
The fourteenth of February is called St. Valentine’s day. On the
evening previous, it was customary in many parts of the world for
people to write valentines, or love-letters in verse, to any lady
who pleased their fancy; and sometimes ladies were gracious enough to
address their lovers in rhyme. The outer door was usually slyly opened,
and the verses, tied to an apple or an orange, thrown in. A loud rap
then announced the event to the inmates of the house. Sometimes the
boys, for the sake of sport, would chalk the size of a letter on the
door-step, and then have fine fun when some person attempted to pick
it up. There was a superstition that whoever was first seen on the
morning of St. Valentine’s day, would assuredly be the future spouse.
On that day it was customary for a young lady to choose from among the
gentlemen of her acquaintance one to be her gallant; he presented her
with a bunch of flowers, or other trifling present, and thus bound
himself to attend upon her with the most obsequious gallantry for the
space of one year; before the service was completed a more serious
partnership was often resolved on.
On St. Valentine’s day, it is still usual for the common people of
England to draw names by lot. The man whose name is drawn makes the
fair one some trifling present, and is her partner in the dance. She
considers him her beau until he is engaged to some one else, or till
St. Valentine’s day returns.
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