The History of the Manners and Customs of Ancient Greece, Volume 1 (of 3) — John Shaqi
The History of the Manners and Customs of Ancient Greece, Volume 1 (of 3)St. John, James Augustus
History
The History of the Manners and Customs of Ancient Greece, Volume 1 (of 3)
St. John, James Augustus
Greece -- Social life and customs
And this leads us to consider another remarkable feature of the Greek
character,—its peculiar aptitude for friendship. No country’s history
and traditions abound with so many examples of this virtue as those of
Greece. In truth, it was there regarded as the most unequivocal mark of
an heroic and generous nature, being wholly inconsistent with anything
base, sordid, or ignoble, and flourishing only in company with virtues
rarest and most difficult of acquisition. Poetry, no doubt, has clad the
friendship of heroic times with a splendour scarcely belonging to real
life, but the experience of history warrants us in making but slight
deductions. Nature in those ages appeared to delight in producing men in
pairs, each suited to be the ornament and solace of the other,
possessing different qualities, imperfect when apart, but complete,
united. Men thus constituted were a sort of moral twins, an extension,
if we may so speak, of unity, the same yet different, bringing two souls
under the yoke of one will, desiring the same, hating the same,
possessing the same, valuing life and the gifts of life only as they
were shared in common, seeking adventures, facing dangers together,
conforming their thoughts, opinions, feelings, each to the other, having
no distinct interest, no distinct hope, but engrafting two lives on the
chances of one man’s fortune, and both perishing by the same blow.
This feeling has by some been supposed to have owed its strength, in
part at least, to the degraded position of women in society; a subject
on which I shall have more to say hereafter, but may here remark that
such an opinion is wholly incompatible with an impartial interpretation
of the Homeric poems and the older traditions of Greece. Throughout
fabulous times women are the prime movers in all great events; and the
respect which as mothers, sisters, wives, and daughters they received,
though expressed in uncourtly language, was perhaps as great as has ever
been paid them in any age or country. Every distinguished woman in Homer
is the centre of a circle of tender and touching associations. We behold
them beloved by their relatives, honoured by their dependants, enjoying
every decent freedom, every becoming pleasure, with all the influence
and authority appertaining to their sex. Thus Helen, both before and
after her fall, is entire mistress of her house, and treated with all
possible deference and delicacy: so Hecuba, Andromache, Penelope, Arete,
Nausicaa, and Iphigeneia in their respective positions, are held in the
highest esteem, and command as great a share of love from those whose
duty it was to love and honour them, as any other women in history or
fiction. Nor were due respect and tenderness confined to the high and
the noble; for innumerable proofs occur in Homer that even among the
humblest ranks, that delicate self-respect which is shown by respect to
our other self, and may be regarded as the pivot of civilisation, was
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