The History of the Manners and Customs of Ancient Greece, Volume 2 (of 3)St. John, James Augustus
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The History of the Manners and Customs of Ancient Greece, Volume 2 (of 3)
St. John, James Augustus
Greece -- Social life and customs
But, perhaps, the reader will not be displeased if we introduce
dramatically upon the scene an Athenian married pair discussing in his
presence a question closely connected with domestic happiness. There is
little risk of exaggeration. The picture is by Xenophon, a writer whose
subdued and sober colouring is calculated rather to diminish than
otherwise the poetical features of his subject.
By Heaven! exclaimed Socrates, according to this account, your wife’s
understanding must be of a highly masculine character.
Nay, but suffer me, answered the husband, to place before you a
convincing proof of her high-mindedness, by showing how, on a single
representation, she yielded to me on a subject extremely important.
Proceed, cried the philosopher, (who had not found Xantippe thus
manageable,) proceed; for, believe me, friend, I experience much greater
delight in contemplating the active virtues of a living woman, than the
most exquisite female form by the pencil of Zeuxis would afford me.
Observing, said Ischomachos, that my wife sought by cosmetics[98] and
other arts of the toilette to render herself fairer and ruddier than she
had issued from the hands of Nature, and that she wore high-heeled shoes
in order to add to her stature,—Tell me, wife,[99] I began, would you
now esteem me to be a worthy participator of your fortunes if,
concealing the true state of my affairs, I aimed at appearing richer
than I am, by exhibiting to you heaps of false money, necklaces of
gilded wood for gold, and wardrobes of spurious for genuine purple?
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Footnote 98:
Xen. Œcon. x. ii. 60. Among the Orientals we find there existed a
peculiar collyrium for the white of the eye. Bochart, Hieroz, Pt. ii.
p. 120.
Footnote 99:
Γύναι, a term of greatest endearment among the Greeks, as with the
French “ma femme.” On this point our language is more sophisticated.
The practice reprehended by Ischomachos, in the text, was generally
prevalent in Greece, where certain classes of the community, who could
afford nothing better, used, when they had painted the rest of their
skin white, to dye the cheeks with mulberry-juice, and paint the
eyelids black at the edge. In hot weather, therefore, dusky streamlets
sometimes flowed from the corners of their eyes; and the roses melted
from their cheeks, and dropped into their bosoms. They imitated old
age, too, by covering their hair with white powder. (Athen. xiii. 6.)
It was likewise, at one time, the fashion to bring forward their curls
so as to conceal the forehead, as was the practice in France and
England during a part of the eighteenth century.—Lucian, Dial. Meret.
i. t. iv. p. 123.
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Nay, exclaimed my wife, interrupting me, put not the injurious
supposition: it is what you could not be guilty of. For, were such your
character I could never love you from my soul.
Well, by entering together into the bonds of marriage are we not
mutually invested with a property in each other’s persons?
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