"As a general rule, it is anything but a luxury to break these little
colts in. They are accustomed to have liberty of action and of speech
at home; they do not understand the services at church, they get tired,
they nestle, and, if allowed, will whisper, on an average, once in
three minutes. Now, if Mabel whispers to you, take no notice whatever;
be lost in attention to what is going on. I lay great stress on this.
If my children go to church, they shall not distract me or annoy
others."
This reminded Margaret of many and many a scene she had witnessed
at church, and supposed, as far as she had thought of it at all, a
necessary evil. At first, in full remembrance of what her mother had
said, Mabel sat very still, but before long she began to grow tired and
restless.
"Is it most done?" she whispered.
Margaret appeared to be deaf, and Mabel repeated the question.
Margaret's deafness increased.
"I'm thirsty," said Mabel.
No answer.
"Doesn't Christ keep any water in His house?"
Here Margaret was tempted to smile, and so open the way for a
discussion. But she was true to Mrs. Heath's direction, and presently
the child, finding it useless to try to gain attention, gave up the
attempt. Now, in most cases, it is the mother herself who is to blame
when her little one claims and absorbs her chief attention at church.
If she replies to its question, she sets it an example of talking
during public worship, an act not to be tolerated, unless a case of
illness makes it necessary. And as long as she will listen and reply,
the child will vent its restlessness and weariness by incessant
whispering. Rather than receive no notice at all, it will call forth
such expressions as these:
"Julia, if you don't keep still, you sha'n't come to church. Julia,
you _must not_ get down from your seat. Julia, if you keep up this
whispering I can't hear the sermon. You're thirsty? Well, I can't help
it. Tired? I told you you would be tired, but you would come. Put down
that fan. Don't open my parasol. What a naughty little girl you are!"
On their return from service, Mrs. Heath asked how Mabel had behaved,
and Margaret reported things just as they were.
"I learned that scheme of deafness from mamma," said Mrs. Heath. "She
never would listen to a word from us at church."
"Fred says she gave him warning one Sunday morning that if he got down
from his seat, as he had a trick of doing, she would take him home,"
said Hatty:
"Yes, Hatty, I remember her doing that, and he never forgot it. Mamma
had been an invalid, and unable to attend church, and his nurse used to
take Fred, and she let him behave outrageously. It made a sensation,
I can tell you, when mamma led him, roaring, down the broad aisle,"
returned Laura.
After dinner, Mabel was allowed to stretch her limbs by playing with
Kitty; then her mother read to her and to the child next in age. Mabel
sat with her doll in her arms, but intent on the reading.
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