"You might threaten to whip her till she said it, and she become so
tired out as to be utterly unable to utter the word. Parents are
continually making mistakes of this sort. A child has not always
control of its tongue. Doesn't yours sometimes cleave to the roof of
your mouth? And there is another thing, Kitzie is shy. What it would
cost an ordinary child no effort to do, might be torture to her; you
must be careful what you direct her to do, lest you should demand
something she cannot perform. I once knew a timid girl of ten years,
attempt to slip out of a room full of company unobserved. When her
mother called her back to bid the party good-night she came directly,
but blushing painfully, and the words she tried to utter died on her
lips. Her mother was a strict disciplinarian, and thought it her duty
to say, 'You cannot go to bed till you have obeyed me.' The child stood
there a long, long time, weeping bitterly; she was not disobedient in
her habits, she was tired, she longed to get out of sight of those
astonished eyes; but the words would not come. At last, ready to drop
with fatigue, she shrieked them out, and was allowed to creep to bed,
with a sense of being the naughtiest girl in the world. Ah, Fred, let
no careless word tamper with the delicate, complicated machinery of
your child's soul."
"I shall go home a wiser, but a sadder man," said Fred. "I never
realized before that the work of training up a child is such an _awful_
task."
"It is only awful when undertaken by a fool or a knave. You will find,
as other children come to you, that rules that apply to one, fail in
regard to another. What I have advised in regard to Kitzie, may not
apply in the least to your Fred, Jr., when you get that young man."
Fred Grey was worth all he had cost his mother, for his was a strong,
thoughtful character. And all that she had now said to him impressed
him, as it did his wife, when he repeated it to her. Poor little baby
Kitty never had another battle with her resolute young parents; yet
day by day she was learning obedience; day by day they were learning
humility and self-control. Their love to each other and to their child
grew purer and sweeter, and co-operating together in all their plans
for her, her lot bid fair to be a most enviable one.
Mrs. Grey and Margaret had plenty of work on their hands after quiet
once more settled down upon them. Letters and cards had accumulated,
and must be attended to; there were protégés to look after; there was
Mabel to love and to watch and to care for. And, as readers ought to
know by intuition, but young Master Accuracy declares they do not,
there was Mrs. Grey's new book on the stocks, and which the Christmas
festivities had brought to a stand-still.
CHAPTER VIII.
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