On the morning after the wedding, the newly-married pair received visits
and congratulations from their relations and friends. The husband
presented his young wife with gifts, and so also did the visitors, but
this ceremony sometimes did not take place till the second day after the
wedding; for a curious custom existed (only at Athens, however) for the
husband on the day after the wedding to move into his father-in-law’s
house, and there spend a night apart from his wife; she then sent him a
new garment, whereupon he returned to her. With the wedding presents the
dowry was often presented, along with various objects belonging to the
trousseau, such as jars, ointments, sandals, toilette implements, etc.
The wedding festivities were then concluded by a banquet given either by
the bridegroom’s father in his house or by the bridegroom himself; but
it does not appear that there were any women present on this occasion.
Still, this banquet was of a certain importance for the young wife; at
Athens it was connected with her formal admission among the clansmen to
whom the bride now belonged by her marriage. Every tribe (φυλή) at
Athens was divided into three clans (φρáτραι), each of these into thirty
households (γένη); the members of the clans examined into the purity of
descent of citizens, and every new-born child had to be entered in their
register. This ceremony gave a sort of official, or at any rate public,
legitimation to the marriage.
[Illustration: FIG. 78.]
Among the monuments which have been preserved to us, there are several
which refer to marriage; but, as a rule, they adhere to a mythological
form, and do not represent a real scene from daily life. Thus, for
instance, we often see the bridal pair driving in a car, but those who
attend them are the Marriage gods in person, especially Apollo and
Artemis, and when the presentation of marriage gifts to the newly-wedded
pair is represented, it is usually the celebrated couple, Peleus and
Thetis, that we see depicted, while those who offer them the gifts are
gods, such as Hephaestus and the Horae, etc. The vase painting, which
is here given as Fig. 78, also bears a mythological character, though
it, no doubt, adheres very closely to the forms of reality. It
represents the arrival of the bride at the bridegroom’s house. The
latter stands leaning on a spear (which, however, must be an heroic
attribute, and not customary at marriages in the historic period) before
the door of his house. On the left comes the bride, who is recognised by
the veil covering her head. She approaches with a hesitating step, and
the bridesmaid attending her is pushing her gently forward with both
hands, while the groomsman, who goes before her, holds her left hand.
Apollo, with his laurel staff, and Artemis, with quiver and bow, are
gazing sympathetically at the bride; in front of them a woman, either
the match-maker or the bride’s mother, holds out both her arms to
welcome the bridegroom.
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