The House of Quiet: An AutobiographyBenson, Arthur Christopher
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The House of Quiet: An Autobiography
Benson, Arthur Christopher
Country life -- England -- Fiction; English fiction -- 20th century; Invalids -- Fiction
Ennui is, after all, the one foe that we all fear; and in arranging our
life, the most serious preoccupation is how to escape it. The obvious
reply is, of course, “plenty of cheerful society.” But is not general
society to a man with a taste for seclusion the most irritating,
wearing, _ennuyeux_ method of filling the time? It is not the actual
presence of people that is distressing, though that in some moods is
unbearable, but it is the consciousness of duties towards them, whether
as host or guest, that sits, like the Old Man of the Sea, upon one’s
shoulders. A considerable degree of seclusion can be attained by a
solitary-minded man at a large hotel. The only time of the day when you
are compelled to be gregarious is the table d’hôte dinner; and then,
even if you desire to talk, it is often made impossible by the presence
of foreigners among whom one is sandwiched. But take a visit at a large
English country-house; a mixed party with possibly little in common; the
protracted meals, the vacuous sessions, the interminable promenades. Men
are better off than women in this respect, as at most periods of the year
they are swept off in the early forenoon to some vigorous employment,
and are not expected to return till tea-time. But take such a period in
August, a month in which many busy men are compelled to pay visits if
they pay them at all. Think of the desultory cricket matches, the futile
gabble of garden parties.
Of course the desire of solitude, or rather, the nervous aversion to
company, may become so intense as to fall under the head of monomania;
doctors give it an ugly name, I know not exactly what it is, like the
agoraphobia, which is one of the subsections of a certain form of
madness. Agoraphobia is the nervous horror of crowds, which causes
persons afflicted by it to swoon away at the prospect of having to pass
through a square or street crowded with people.
But the dislike of visitors is a distinct, but quite as specific form
of nervous mania. One lady of whom I have heard was in the habit of
darting to the window and involving herself in the window-curtain the
moment she heard a ring at the bell; another, more secretive still,
crept under the sofa. Not so very long ago I went over a great house in
the North; my host took me to a suite of upper rooms with a charming
view. “These,” he said, “were inhabited by my old aunt Susan till her
death some months ago; she was somewhat eccentric in her habits”—here he
thrust his foot under a roomy settee which stood in the window, and to
my intense surprise a bell rang loudly underneath—“Ah,” he said, rather
shamefacedly, “they haven’t taken it off.” I begged for an explanation,
and he said that the old lady had formed an inveterate habit of creeping
under the settee the moment she heard a knock at the door; to cure her of
it, they hung a bell on a spring beneath it, so that she gave warning of
her whereabouts.
[Sidenote: SOLITUDE]
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