Henry Street Settlement (New York, N.Y.); Poor -- New York (State) -- New York
Mrs. S⸺, who called at the settlement a few days ago, reminded me that
it was twenty-one years since our first meeting, and brought vividly
before me a picture of which she was a part. She was the daughter
of a learned rabbi, and her husband, himself a pious man, had great
reverence for the traditions of her family. In their extremity they had
taken bread from one of the newspaper charities, but it was evidently a
painful humiliation, and before we arrived they had hidden the loaf in
the ice-box. My visit was due to a desire to ascertain the condition of
the families who had applied for this dole. Both house and people were
scrupulously clean. It was amazing that under the biting pressure of want
and anxiety such standards could be maintained. Yet, though passionately
devoted to his family, the husband refused advantageous employment
because it necessitated work on the Sabbath. This would have been to them
a desecration of something more vital than life itself.
[Illustration]
We found that winter, in other instances, that the fangs of the wolf were
often decorously hidden. In one family of our acquaintance the father,
a cigarmaker, left the house each morning in search of work, only to
return at night hungrier and more exhausted by his fruitless exertions.
One Sabbath eve I entered his tenement, to find the two rooms scrubbed
and cleaned, and the mother and children prepared for the holy night.
Over a brisk fire fed by bits of wood picked up by the children two
covered pots were set, as if a supper were being prepared. But under the
lids it was only water that bubbled. The proud mother could not bear to
expose her poverty to the gossip of the neighbors, the humiliation being
the greater because she was obliged to violate the sacred custom of
preparing a ceremonious meal for the united family on Friday night.
If the formalism of our neighbors in religious matters was constantly
brought to our attention, instances of their tolerance were also far from
rare. A Jewish woman, exhausted by her long day’s scrubbing of office
floors, walked many extra blocks to beg us to get a priest for her Roman
Catholic neighbor whose child was dying. An orthodox Jewish father,
who had been goaded to bitterness because his daughter had married an
“Irisher” and thus “insulted his religion,” felt that the young husband
and his mother were equally wronged. This man, when I called on a Sabbath
evening, took one of the lights from the table to show the way down the
five flights of dark tenement stairs, and to my protest,—knowing, as I
did, that he considered it a sin to handle fire on the Sabbath,—he said:
“It is no sin for me to handle a light on the Sabbath to show respect to
a friend who has helped to keep a family together.”
[Illustration: WITH PRAYER-SHAWL AND PHYLACTERY]
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