It was not because of any aversion to the society of men that Elizabeth
remained unmarried. Very far from this; it is likely that her extreme
liking for male society cut a considerable figure in her refusal. She
did not propose to give any man a public right to interfere with her
liberty of choice in this regard. History agrees that there was a sting
of truth in the words of Mary, Queen of Scots, in a letter which she
once sent to Elizabeth: "Your aversion to marriage proceeds from your
not wishing to lose the liberty of compelling people to make love to
you." The queen was fickle and passionate. She had little fear of the
royal Mrs. Grundy. At the tender age of sixteen scandal linked her name
with that of the Lord Admiral Seymour in such a way that an
investigation by the council was necessary. She baffled the lawyers in
the examination by her "very good wit."
From the time of her accession, at the age of twenty-five, to the time
of her death, Elizabeth was certainly never without a favorite. She had
small conscience, and there can be little doubt that she required the
assassination of poor Amy Robsart in order that her favorite, Dudley,
might be free from his young wife; and when, after the age of sixty, her
young cavalier of that time, the fascinating Essex, wearying of dancing
attendance upon her at court, joined the expedition of Drake against
Portugal, the Queen bade him return instantly at his "uttermost peril."
In the end she signed the unhappy Essex's death warrant for an alleged
rebellion against her.
But her motive in refusing matrimony was not altogether--perhaps not
even chiefly--one of coquetry. She was avid of power, and could brook no
rival in its exercise. It is probable that considerations of real
patriotism restrained her from marrying a continental prince. She shrank
from introducing foreign influence as instinctively as Americans have at
all times. She shrank from bowing to any yoke of Europe. But there were
also objections to her marrying an Englishman. If she had chosen one she
would have aroused the jealousy of all Englishmen not of his party or
following. She regarded it as the better policy to keep them all hoping.
The unmarried state suited her arrogant and domineering nature well. She
had none of the docility which made Queen Victoria a model house-wife
and mother, and also a model constitutional sovereign. It was her
purpose to have undivided power or none. To the deputation of the House
of Commons which visited her with a petition that she marry, she
answered: "For me it shall be sufficient that a marble stone declare
that a queen, having reigned such a time, lived and died a virgin."
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