The Intermediate Sex: A Study of Some Transitional Types of Men and WomenCarpenter, Edward
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The Intermediate Sex: A Study of Some Transitional Types of Men and Women
Carpenter, Edward
Homosexuality; Sex
Having thus shown the importance of the homogenic or comrade-attachment,
in some form, in national life, it would seem high time now that the
modern peoples should recognise this in their institutions, and endeavour
at least in their public opinion and systems of education to understand
this factor and give it its proper place. The undoubted evils which exist
in relation to it, for instance in our public schools as well as in our
public life, owe their existence largely to the fact that the whole
subject is left in the gutter so to speak--in darkness and concealment.
No one offers a clue of better things, nor to point a way out of the
wilderness; and by this very non-recognition the passion is perverted
into its least satisfactory channels. All love, one would say, must have
its responsibilities, else it is liable to degenerate, and to dissipate
itself in mere sentiment or sensuality. The normal marriage between man
and woman leads up to the foundation of the household and the family;
the love between parents and children implies duties and cares on both
sides. The homogenic attachment left unrecognised, easily loses some
of its best quality and becomes an ephemeral or corrupt thing. Yet,
as we have seen, and as I am pointing out in the following chapter,
it may, when occurring between an elder and younger, prove to be an
immense educational force; while, as between equals, it may be turned
to social and heroic uses, such as can hardly be demanded or expected
from the ordinary marriage. It would seem high time, I say, that public
opinion should recognise these facts; and so give to this attachment the
sanction and dignity which arise from public recognition, as well as
the definite form and outline which would flow from the existence of an
accepted ideal or standard in the matter. It is often said how necessary
for the morality of the ordinary marriage is some public recognition of
the relation, and some accepted standard of conduct in it. May not, to
a lesser degree, something of the same kind (as suggested in the next
chapter) be true of the homogenic attachment? It has had its place as
a recognised and guarded institution in the elder and more primitive
societies; and it seems quite probable that a similar place will be
accorded to it in the societies of the future.
IV
Affection in Education
The place of Affection, and the need of it, as an educative force in
school-life, is a subject which is beginning to attract a good deal of
attention. Hitherto Education has been concentred on intellectual (and
physical) development; but the affections have been left to take care of
themselves. Now it is beginning to be seen that the affections have an
immense deal to say in the building up of the brain and the body. Their
evolution and organisation in some degree is probably going to become an
important part of school management.
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