The Intermediate Sex: A Study of Some Transitional Types of Men and WomenCarpenter, Edward
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The Intermediate Sex: A Study of Some Transitional Types of Men and Women
Carpenter, Edward
Homosexuality; Sex
It is not necessary, however, to quote authorities on such a subject as
this.[51] Any one who has had experience of schoolboys knows well enough
that they are capable of forming these romantic and devoted attachments,
and that their alliances are often of the kind especially referred to as
having a bearing on education--_i.e._, between an elder and a younger.
They are genuine attractions, free as a rule, and at their inception,
from secondary motives. They are not formed by the elder one for any
personal ends. More often, indeed, I think they are begun by the younger,
who naively allows his admiration of the elder one to become visible. But
they are absorbing and intense, and on either side their influence is
deeply felt and long remembered.
That such attachments _may_ be of the very greatest value is
self-evident. The younger boy looks on the other as a hero, loves to
be with him, thrills with pleasure at his words of praise or kindness,
imitates, and makes him his pattern and standard, learns exercises and
games, contracts habits, or picks up information from him. The elder one,
touched, becomes protector and helper; the unselfish side of his nature
is drawn out, and he develops a real affection and tenderness towards
the younger. He takes all sorts of trouble to initiate his _protégé_ in
field sports or studies; is proud of the latter’s success; and leads him
on perhaps later to share his own ideals of life and thought and work.
Sometimes the alliance will begin, in a corresponding way, from the side
of the elder boy. Sometimes, as said, between a boy and a master such an
attachment, or the germ of it, is found; and indeed it is difficult to
say what gulf, or difference of age, or culture, or class in society, is
so great that affection of this kind will not on occasion overpass it.
I have by me a letter which was written by a boy of eleven or twelve to
a young man of twenty-four or twenty-five. The boy was rather a wild,
“naughty” boy, and had given his parents (working-class folk) a good deal
of trouble. He attended, however, some sort of night-school or evening
class and there conceived the strongest affection (evidenced by this
letter) for his teacher, the young man in question, quite spontaneously,
and without any attempt on the part of the latter to elicit it; and
(which was equally important) without any attempt on his part to _deny_
it. The result was most favorable; the one force which could really reach
the boy had, as it were, been found; and he developed rapidly and well.
The following extract is from a letter written by an elderly man who has
had large experience as a teacher. He says--
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