The International Monthly, Volume 3, No. 3, June, 1851Various
History
The International Monthly, Volume 3, No. 3, June, 1851
Various
Art, Modern -- 19th century -- Periodicals; Literature, Modern -- 19th century -- Periodicals; Science -- History -- Periodicals
With his third wife he seems to have lived happily; the young wife
devoted herself to his necessities--for he was now blind--"in
darkness, and with dangers compassed round, and solitude."
DR. RICHARD HOOKER, was very unfortunate in his wife. He was betrayed
into marrying her by his extraordinary simplicity and ignorance of the
world. The circumstances connected with the marriage were these:
Having been appointed to preach at St. Paul's Cross, he went up to
London from Oxford, and proceeded to the house set apart for the
reception of the preachers. He was very wet and weary on his arrival,
and experienced much kindness from the housekeeper. She persuaded him
that he was a man of very tender constitution, and urged that he
ought, above all things, to have a wife, to nurse and take care of
him. She professed to be able to furnish him with such, if he thought
fit to marry. Hooker authorized her to select a wife for him, and the
artful woman presented her own daughter--"a silly, clownish woman, and
withal a mere Xantippe." Hooker, who had promised to marry whomsoever
she should select, thought himself bound to marry her, and he did so.
They led a most uncomfortable life, but he resigned himself as he best
could, lamenting that "saints have usually a double share in the
miseries of this life." When Cranmer and Sandys went to see him at his
rectory in Buckinghamshire, they found him reading Horace and tending
sheep, in the absence of the servant. When they were conversing with
him in the house, his wife would break in upon them, and call him away
to rock the cradle and perform other menial offices. The guests were
glad to get away. This unfortunate wife was long a thorn in his side.
The famous Earl of ROCHESTER appears in very favorable light in his
letters to his wife: they are remarkably tender, affectionate, and
gentle. In one of them, he says: "'Tis not an easy thing to be
entirely happy; but to be kind is very easy, and that is the greatest
measure of happiness. I say not this to put you in mind of being kind
to me--you have practised that so long, that I have a joyful
confidence you will never forget it--but to show that I myself have a
sense of what the method of my life seemed so utterly to contradict."
DRYDEN married Elizabeth Howard, daughter of the Earl of Berkshire.
The match added little to his wealth, and less to his happiness. It
was an altogether unhappy union. On one occasion, his wife wished to
be a book, that she might enjoy more of his company. Dryden's reply
was: "Be an almanac, then, my dear, that I may change you once a
year." In his writings afterwards, he constantly inveighed against
matrimony.
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