To me every good woman is the fair fulfillment of dreamed delight. She
is the first at the cross and the last at the grave. All that is
highest and best in the world is nurtured and fed by the milk of her
nobility. The Christ of all greatness and hope was born of a woman.
The noble women of the world! O, would that the days of chivalry were
not past, that I might unsheath a lance in their name, for their glory!
But in our more prosaic days, what can I do but let the will suffice
for the deed, and say to the woman, "God bless you." I propose to let
her speak for herself today. I propose to accept her invitation to
accompany her through the various spheres of her domestic life, and see
whether she alone is responsible for that vice and crime and misfortune
which moralists and superintendents of penal and charity institutes
trace back to neglects at home; whether it is always the wife and
mother that is responsible for unhappiness in marriage and for the
increase of divorces; whether the husbands and fathers are always the
saints and martyrs, or whether they are not very, very often the root
of the whole evil themselves.
We retrace our steps and begin with our observations of the husband and
father a few months prior to that solemn day, on which he plighted his
vows of protection and faithfulness, on which he took into his care and
trust a woman's life and happiness, on which he sacredly promised, in
the name of God, and in the presence of witnesses, to love her, to
honor and cherish her, to provide for her, to be faithful to her in all
his obligations as husband, in youth and in old age, in sunshine and in
darkness, in prosperity and in adversity. We make first his
acquaintance in the happy days of his courtship. He is burning with
love. He is the facsimile of Shakespeare's lover, "sighing like a
furnace." Her praises are on his lips always. He avows himself her
slave and worships her as a goddess. It is in her company alone that
he can find happiness. Whether at home or in society, he is always at
her side. Life is dreary where she is not. He wonders how he could
have lived so long, or how he could continue existence, without her.
How regular and how punctual he is in his calls, and how he scowls at
the clock for running away with time so fast! Not a wish does she
express, no matter how unreasonable and extravagant, but he eagerly
gratifies it. How numerous his little attentions and his kind
remembrances! How thoughtful of her birthday, and how lavish in floral
tributes and costly presents! How numerous and how lengthy his letters
when separated! How sweet their moonlight walks and talks! How bright
her future, which he maps out! How many the pledges which he breathes
forth between his ardent kisses; never a harsh word shall break on her
ear, never a wish of hers shall be ungratified, never a trouble shall
mar her happiness; such a love as his has never been before, and will
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