never be again; he only lives for her happiness; his affection will
never cool, he will be a lover all his life; their whole wedded life
will be one never-waning honeymoon.
In the drama the plot usually ends with marriage. At the instant when
it is reached, when all obstacles are removed, the curtain falls, and
the young people have no further existence for us. But in the
practical world the play goes on. The curtain rises again, the same
personages reappear, only they frequently play different parts, and
what was before a comedy or a melo-drama often changes into a tragedy.
Sad and tearful scenes are often enacted by them. The misery and pain
are no longer inflicted by their former enemy, but by their own hands.
He, who prior to marriage overcame almost insurmountable obstacles to
make his lady fair his happy wife, now moves heaven and earth to make
that wife as miserable as possible.
A number of years have passed since last we observed the lover. He is
husband and father now, but what a change these few years have wrought
in him! Forgotten are the lover's vows. She that once his goddess
was, is now his slave. The fulsome flatterer of former times has
degenerated into a chronic fault-finder. With the change of her name
has begun his change of treatment of her. Cast aside are the many
courtesies and expressions of endearment that marked his conduct to her
prior to marriage, and which were the thousand golden threads that day
by day throughout their courtship wove their hearts closely into one.
No bouquets and no costly gifts any more. The anniversary of her birth
and of their wedding day passes by unnoticed by him. His former
efforts to entertain her, to make himself agreeable to her, have
altogether ceased. Rarer, and ever rarer, become his parting and his
coming kiss, his "good-bye, dear," and his "good evening, darling."
Fewer and fewer become his words of praise. Irksome becomes the task
of staying at home. He, who once upon a time found life dreary where
she was not, who vowed that in her company alone he found happiness,
who could not await the evening that would bring him to her, who
declared that his affection would never cool, and their whole wedded
life would be one continuous honeymoon, now finds her company tedious,
her home unattractive. He looks upon his home as his boarding and
lodging-house, upon his wife as the kitchen scullion, or as the nurse
of his children, for which services he generally allows her so many
dollars a week. At the breakfast table his face is buried in the
morning paper. He rises without interchanging a word with wife and
child. Absent from home all day long, he is absent still, even when
home in the evening. No sooner has he swallowed his meal, when he
buries himself in the newspaper for the rest of the evening, or dozes
on the sofa till bedtime, or he has an important business engagement
down town, or some meeting to attend, or an important engagement brings
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