During her marriage she had been entirely frigid with respect to the sexual
act. A friend told her she had been missing an essential experience of
marriage. About a year after her husband left her she met a man who
thrilled her through and through, and thought, "this is what my friend
meant." This man showed her some attention and she set out consciously to
seduce him. She soon succeeded and though he was wildly in love with her and
wanted to marry her, she steadfastly refused on the score of not loving him,
but was his mistress for two or three years. During this time her staring
spells seem to have been at a minimum, but I cannot assert that they
disappeared.
Then she met the man who became her second husband. She had refused to marry
her lover because she did not "love" him. She now dropped him completely,
and getting a divorce from her husband on the ground of desertion, married.
She was happy about a year and a half when her husband moved to a country
cross-road near a "hotel" (bar-room). Here he began drinking badly, and
consorting with prostitutes. For three years she fought her husband off, in
fear of infection. During this time she had no intercourse. At this time
began the attacks of unconsciousness. She was alone one night, while her
husband was off carousing, when she had a terrible fright on seeing a man
trying to get in at the window. This was probably hallucinatory as nothing
came of it. But from this time forth she was subject to attacks, in which
she lost consciousness, had convulsions, frothed at the mouth, and bit her
tongue badly.
At the end of about three years, however, her patience broke, and she told
her husband that if he did not stop she should leave him. This threat
brought him to his senses apparently, and he completely reformed. But her
love for him was dead. And though she now permitted marital relations to be
resumed, she remained from this time on absolutely frigid. Her husband too,
now suffered from premature ejaculation. Thus from the point of view both
of "passion" and of "love" the patient was not satisfied. Her attacks
increased in number and violence, coming now at any time, not being confined
to the menstrual period as at first, and coming days as well as nights.
In this patient we have represented the points of view both of Stekel and of
Clark. The patient showed conclusively her capacity for criminal action.
She also illustrates the craving for a return to the mother. The morning of
the day on which she had the first attack in which she bit her tongue, she
passed through the town where her mother was living and thought, "Oh, if I
could only go to my mother." But remembering she had promised her lawyer to
live a year with her husband, she went on. Of the sexual character of her
conflicts no further comment is necessary.
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